Minx, how are you to know my thought processes, how are you to know what I REALLY want? Have I ever shared that with you? You do not know that that was a decision I made way back when I was 22. I am not trying to convince myself or anyone that I don't need to have a child.
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I said I don't want a child and that's my decision to make, without taking other people's opinion into consideration. If in 2 years I change my mind, that is also my decision to make. For the past 8 years up to this moment, I have no maternal clock ticking in my head. I don't see babies and go "aww". I don't think about "when I have my kid" or that sort of thing.
LIES!!
As for taking precaution, you seem to be missing the fact that I do and point it out several times.
Now if you find me a method of contraction that prevents at 100% (besides abstinance), please point me in that direction. Thanks