i am supposed to go out tonight

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nikkigiovanni

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but i don't even want to

but i have to support a friend....when you have a lot of friends that are artists and promoters, you spend the majority of your life showing everyone support....it is exhausting

*sigh*
 

MadamStatuesque

I can only be me....
but i don't even want to

but i have to support a friend....when you have a lot of friends that are artists and promoters, you spend the majority of your life showing everyone support....it is exhausting

*sigh*
si... just chill out or just go and do something for u.
 
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Mad Scorpion

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but i don't even want to

but i have to support a friend....when you have a lot of friends that are artists and promoters, you spend the majority of your life showing everyone support....it is exhausting

*sigh*
Learn to be supportive in other ways. Help plan, contribute, offer ideas, etc. Find ways to show you care that don't invole only being there because they are a friend. One should enjoy being supportive of people they care about. Anytime it becomes a chore or a bother in any way then either the friendshp parameters need to be revisited and titles may need adjusting or you just might need a break from that friendship environment. Apart from that friends should understand that sometimes you can't be there. If you don't feel like going follow your mind. It may be a premonition to something unpleasant (even if all it means is you have a sucky time).
 
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nikkigiovanni

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problem is, she made an effort to come to the bbq this past weekend...she only stayed for about half and hour, so she showed her face...i know she is expecting me to do the same

the party is going to be at the 40/40 club...those types of places is not my scene at all
 
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Mad Scorpion

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problem is, she made an effort to come to the bbq this past weekend...she only stayed for about half and hour, so she showed her face...i know she is expecting me to do the same

the party is going to be at the 40/40 club...those types of places is not my scene at all
Well return the favor in kind. Stop by for a few and make sure yuh greet she den ghost!!
 

ladyrastafari

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yea nikki.. "move like a spanish".. eat, drink and roll out! you dont have to stay.. come for the beginning and leave at some point.
 
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nikkigiovanni

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Learn to be supportive in other ways. Help plan, contribute, offer ideas, etc. Find ways to show you care that don't invole only being there because they are a friend. One should enjoy being supportive of people they care about. Anytime it becomes a chore or a bother in any way then either the friendshp parameters need to be revisited and titles may need adjusting or you just might need a break from that friendship environment. Apart from that friends should understand that sometimes you can't be there. If you don't feel like going follow your mind. It may be a premonition to something unpleasant (even if all it means is you have a sucky time).
it's not about the friendship...i love her dearly, but it's about me not being in the spirit

my friends are ALWAYS doing something...if it's not a concert, it's a play, a film festival, dance theater, a party, a celebration dinner, poetry readings, poetry shows on the radio. blah blah blah...and let's not forget the general "we haven't hung out in so long, i wanna seeeeeee you"

i don't have any children, and i am ALWAYS supportive on all levels, so it is something they have grown to EXPECT from me
 
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nikkigiovanni

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Well return the favor in kind. Stop by for a few and make sure yuh greet she den ghost!!
yea nikki.. "move like a spanish".. eat, drink and roll out! you dont have to stay.. come for the beginning and leave at some point.

it's easy to show your face and bounce at a bbq when you live 5 minutes aways from it....but it's gonna take a lot of effort for me to get to the 40/40 Club...that means i am gonna have to find some dressy outfit to wear that is going to make me uncomfortable...then that is roundtrip taxi fare from bk to manhattan...that's a lot of effort for me right now (i am on my heavy flow day to make it worse)...maybe on another day i would feel different...but i feel bad because this girl is an EXCELLENT friend to me
 

MadamStatuesque

I can only be me....
it's easy to show your face and bounce at a bbq when you live 5 minutes aways from it....but it's gonna take a lot of effort for me to get to the 40/40 Club...that means i am gonna have to find some dressy outfit to wear that is going to make me uncomfortable...then that is roundtrip taxi fare from bk to manhattan...that's a lot of effort for me right now (i am on my heavy flow day to make it worse)...maybe on another day i would feel different...but i feel bad because this girl is an EXCELLENT friend to me
so take a motrin, use a tampon, suck it up, and go...
 
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Mad Scorpion

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it's not about the friendship...i love her dearly, but it's about me not being in the spirit

my friends are ALWAYS doing something...if it's not a concert, it's a play, a film festival, dance theater, a party, a celebration dinner, poetry readings, poetry shows on the radio. blah blah blah...and let's not forget the general "we haven't hung out in so long, i wanna seeeeeee you"

i don't have any children, and i am ALWAYS supportive on all levels, so it is something they have grown to EXPECT from me
Well yuh spoil dem so yuh ha to deal with it.
 
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nikkigiovanni

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so take a motrin, use a tampon, suck it up, and go...
i did,...and i had a decent time....

it was packed, my feet were killing me from the skinny high heels, and i was getting a little too tipsy cause all i had to eat all day was 2 slices of pizza in the afternoon...lol

the music was nice tho, and the vibe was cool....it's always that way during gay pride month...too bad i felt like i was surrounded by a bunch of lesbian midgets otherwise i woulda holla'd at some of them...lol
 

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but i don't even want to

but i have to support a friend....when you have a lot of friends that are artists and promoters, you spend the majority of your life showing everyone support....it is exhausting

*sigh*
this heat is gonna make a lot of people stay inside tonite
 
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