Caribbean Men Views on African American Women...

MJ7

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Blame this on Bago. I think I got his name right. Anyhoot, he said something in another thread that got me to thinking.

Currently, I'm living in Georgia and I have several female relatives either engaged/dating or who are married to men from the Caribbean. They are very stable and happy in their relationships, but I was curious as to why men from the Caribbean are so eager to marry or date Southern Black women, but seem to be negative about Black American women in the North.

Do you see a difference?

West Indians in general remind me of Southern people and I feel very comfortable around them. From a values perspective, there are a lot of similarities and from what some people from the Caribbean have told me, Black Southerners remind them of folks back home. However, I'm not naive and I know that at times, there has been tension between the two groups. However, I do feel it's improving.

For those men who have recently moved to or have been living in the South and have lived in the North, what are your views on African American women, compared to women in the Caribbean or African American women you dated or married in the North?

 

Swerve

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A woman is a woman is a woman... no matter where she from.... and before CocoE get here..
Yes.. A man is a man is a man.
 
worst thing you wanna run into is a dunce sexybody downsouth gal

upnarth girl dem in my opinion depending on their viewpoints on blakness
that tells me if dem a fukkin idiot or not
 

Zengetsu

EnLiGhTeNeD 1
A woman is a woman is a woman... no matter where she from.... and before CocoE get here..
Yes.. A man is a man is a man.
true but at the same time not because a woman is a woman is a woman mean that every woman share the same mentality or thought pattern ot acts the same in certain manner. Yuh zeeit!
 

MJ7

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Huh?

worst thing you wanna run into is a dunce sexybody downsouth gal

upnarth girl dem in my opinion depending on their viewpoints on blakness
that tells me if dem a fukkin idiot or not
:scratch So, how do you determine this? Do you give them a quiz?
 
:scratch So, how do you determine this? Do you give them a quiz?
not necessarily a quiz...say in conversation she refers to herself as a "blackwoman" and comes with the varying bullshit negatives that her called mentality follows...
I dispise it...and would term her a fukkin idiot....
says she not as smart as she should be....
just so happens thats 8 outta 10 "blackwomen"...yet of course my mentality is completely a turnoff for them also
 

Zengetsu

EnLiGhTeNeD 1
not necessarily a quiz...say in conversation she refers to herself as a "blackwoman" and comes with the varying bullshit negatives that her called mentality follows...
I dispise it...and would term her a fukkin idiot....
says she not as smart as she should be....
just so happens thats 8 outta 10 "blackwomen"...yet of course my mentality is completely a turnoff for them also
yuh seeit yuh seeit yuh seeit.
 

iPicong

New member
btw.......I was listening to an old audio of a old southern black man..........cant remember if he was a slave..........im gonna try to upload it.........but dude sound west indian.......none of that current day southern gibbrish
 
yuh seeit yuh seeit yuh seeit.
real ting....FACT of the matter is that NEITHER the down south or narthern blak woman is in good shape...
full a disease and single with what seems to be little hope of finding true love....suh de ting set...dont know why so many scared to admit the fukkin prablem
 

Zengetsu

EnLiGhTeNeD 1
real ting....FACT of the matter is that NEITHER the down south or narthern blak woman is in good shape...
full a disease and single with what seems to be little hope of finding true love....suh de ting set...dont know why so many scared to admit the fukkin prablem
not that they scared IMO they don't want to see themselves as the facking problem....and i'm not focusing on women here i'm talking bout everybady wit di bad mentality that deicide to heap blame on others and not look at themselves first.
 
not that they scared IMO they don't want to see themselves as the facking problem....and i'm not focusing on women here i'm talking bout everybady wit di bad mentality that deicide to heap blame on others and not look at themselves first.
right ya now de way me pree it whole a dem fi juss catch aids n ded....aids is a gift from gad fi dem
 

MJ7

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Not following you...

not necessarily a quiz...say in conversation she refers to herself as a "blackwoman" and comes with the varying bullshit negatives that her called mentality follows...
I dispise it...and would term her a fukkin idiot....
says she not as smart as she should be....
just so happens thats 8 outta 10 "blackwomen"...yet of course my mentality is completely a turnoff for them also

What negatives are you talking about? Be specific. I'm trying to understand.
 

dedetriniking

Registered User
Not including hoes, heffers and scallawogs in the discussion here. According to people i have spoken to southern girls more into taking care of their men than girls from the north who are all about career/money/flash. Southern girls are more liable to know their way around a stove and more liable to pamper their men than girls from big cities up north. Caribbean men tend to gravitate toward that type of female.
 
What negatives are you talking about? Be specific. I'm trying to understand.
do you think its an ACCIDENT that "blackwomen" are the LEAST wanted, respected and have the highest rates of disease etc etc etc and its getting worse?

thats not accidental
thats being a dumbass
 

Appleton

Registered User
not that they scared IMO they don't want to see themselves as the facking problem....and i'm not focusing on women here i'm talking bout everybady wit di bad mentality that deicide to heap blame on others and not look at themselves first.
Truth 101 :good: I think it's so easy to forget that perception is subjective..so if your viewpoint is skewed then something is wrong with the way you process information.
 
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