Can a woman EMASCULATE a man?

BAJANFUHLIFE

Registered User
would it be fair to say that the man has been emasculated even though he seems to be not in control in the house?

would you consider a woman earning more money than her man a sign of EMASCULATION?

wat do you understand by the term emasculation?
 

ilanbaybee

BASHMENT Master
yes i refer to is as the steadmanization of a man. He no longer has a role in providing for the family, he is not confided in, and not really worth more than the pretty girls that a footballer goes for.....

i think in some instances a woman making more than her man is emasulation.......he is supposed to feel like the breadwinner, now he has to ask his wife for allowance?! thats what women do.
 

BAJANFUHLIFE

Registered User
yes i refer to is as the steadmanization of a man. He no longer has a role in providing for the family, he is not confided in, and not really worth more than the pretty girls that a footballer goes for.....

i think in some instances a woman making more than her man is emasulation.......he is supposed to feel like the breadwinner, now he has to ask his wife for allowance?! thats what women do.
steadmanization? when u said that, i quickly thought bout oprah's man steadman. LOL. is that a word u coined or something?
 

BAJANFUHLIFE

Registered User
lol i like to think i coined it but i read it in one of those trashy black romance novels.
ok. i dont think that man should be considered emasculated cause his woman earns more than him. so u tryin to say that a carpenter cannot married a female lawyer or doctor cause she will be makin more than him and be emasculated? times change, we no longer have stay at home women. back in the day, the man would be considered the SOLE breadwinner of the household, but not in these days. i know women who earn far more than their boyfriends or husbands. yet i would not say they are emasculated.
 

ilanbaybee

BASHMENT Master
is not me who emasulates the man, its the man who feels it. I did not say that he is automatically stedmanized because his woman makes more. It has alot to do with how he feels as a whole.
 

small_island_descent

Registered User
Some women can attempt to emasculate a man in aa relationship for sure. But in my opinion, emasculation is not about how much she makes or how much the man controls the house. It's more about her attitude towards him. If your "woman" is there constantly criticizing you for everyone, constantly demeaning your efforts at home, at work, etc... and in many ways, is not allowing you to have a role in your household, that is a way of emasculating the man.
 

femmeayitienne

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Some women can attempt to emasculate a man in aa relationship for sure. But in my opinion, emasculation is not about how much she makes or how much the man controls the house. It's more about her attitude towards him. If your "woman" is there constantly criticizing you for everyone, constantly demeaning your efforts at home, at work, etc... and in many ways, is not allowing you to have a role in your household, that is a way of emasculating the man.

but if a woman was doing that and she made less money than him it would simply be nagging and not her emasculating him...
 

Kiz

Registered User
...and sometime woman need to allow dey man to be a man and stop catering to his every need like he's her son or mother....and not getting back anything in return...
 

small_island_descent

Registered User
but if a woman was doing that and she made less money than him it would simply be nagging and not her emasculating him...
I'd still see it as her emasculating him. Because she could be making less money but feel that, since she is a woman, her main duty is to take care of the home, not be the breadwinner. Some women don't even feel they need to take care of the home yet still, feel it is the man's job to provide for her whatever she wants. So, she can still emasculate him in the sense that she can say "so what if I make less money, you're the man, and you can't even pay for ......"
 
M

Mad Scorpion

Guest
I'd still see it as her emasculating him. Because she could be making less money but feel that, since she is a woman, her main duty is to take care of the home, not be the breadwinner. Some women don't even feel they need to take care of the home yet still, feel it is the man's job to provide for her whatever she wants. So, she can still emasculate him in the sense that she can say "so what if I make less money, you're the man, and you can't even pay for ......"
What you describing sound like a teenage relationship between adults
 

jamaicangirl

Boonoonoonoos
How does a man efeminate a woman?





See how ridiculous that sounds?

If a man has caveman era beliefs about what manhood means then he needs to make sure that he lives up to that and not blame the woman for his shortcomings.
 

Da 1 n 0nly Vida

♥bruk d mold wen bawn♥
lmmfaooo dis thread just mek me remember wat wi (me n me dawta) did see pon our way home last night ..

wi deh pon West Farms waiting fi d BX 40/42 n right deh ina d busstop shelter dis man n female ah have ah argument ..

man seh .. "man have d control ah d house .. but really it yu females ah run tings"

d wooman ah keep tell him "wat me ah seh ta yu .. SHUT UP " n she just repeatedly tell him "i tell you to Shut up ... so SHUT UP"..

bus reach...
wi get on ..

of course mah daughter av us go sit inna d back back ..
dem deh in d row in front ah us ..

dem chatting ..
pon same ting ..

y0o0o0o all sudden HOMEGIRL start thumping HOMEBOY inna d noggin y0! she start punching him repeatedly in his dome! ..
took him ah sec i think to realize what just happen ..

y0 d man start crying like ah bytch seriously ..

mah daughter not even wimp out like dat .. mah daughter @ 3 .. will ah least try ta snuff you back ..

NOW dat couple deh .. DATS AH FEMALE EMASCULATING a MAN!!!!

so i guess .. in sum instances .. yes it can happen
 
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