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    You black men are too CHEAP...

    I see where people can get confused in this day and time between what used to happen in the 1860's and today.. You see back den mankind was courting woman for marriage so it was not even a thought to spend a whole weeks pay of 5 bucks to take a nice young lady out to dinner, broadway, and also to shower her with gifts and the like just to be the first to have her hand...

    However since the hippy and good times era when man and women were having relationships on the whim and getting mutually high together there was no need to court women. Heck all you needed was some rum and hash and you were almost guaranteed a nice time..

    Fast forward to the future where there is so much horning going on that neither man or woman are trying to get married period unless forced to by law we have now evolved into the ideology of "sh1t, if I buy you dinner you better be giving me some tonight"... Hence how traditional roles or lack thereof hath changed overtime....

    Tell me your stories... :

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    We are!

    I know I am.

    I have no problem with taking a woman out, but wait... my money is for spending and hers is for?

    back in 1869, women didn't have jobs.
    back in 1869, women were dependent on men.

    Today, things have changed. So have the rolls. Women feel they don't need a man for anything. And men feel like they can do whatever they want. I blame Destiny's Child.

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    lol@ I blame destinys child!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4mydawgz View Post
    We are!

    I know I am.

    I have no problem with taking a woman out, but wait... my money is for spending and hers is for?

    back in 1869, women didn't have jobs.
    back in 1869, women were dependent on men.

    Today, things have changed. So have the rolls. Women feel they don't need a man for anything. And men feel like they can do whatever they want. I blame Destiny's Child.
    FIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRE TELL THEM BOY TELL DEM!

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    I know I am not cheap.. Spend too dayumn much.


    but on the other hand, if men are cheap then women are???

    sheiiiiiitttttttt

    Women are some cheap cheap cheaper creatures.

    Please

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    Lmao @ destiny's child comment...

    I wouldn't say blk men are cheap but I damn well know some blk men that are cheap as hell!

    Grew up wit my daddy and he got me whatever I needed and whatever I wanted...

    And some of my more serious rships the guys had a very strong sense of taking care of their woman!


    So if I were to encounter a dude that I thought was cheap I prolly wouldn't date him!

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    I can't say black men are cheap at all!!! that would be a lie
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    not all black men are cheap but some of wunna can be some serious misers. it's not a sexy trait at all...

    as a woman who enjoys spending money on her man... i'll be damned if i mess with a cheap fcuker, not happening.

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    Most of the black men I know are not cheap with women..In fact we like spending money on women who are worth it..The problem arises with women who have the perception that we are suppose to buy them every and anything they want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4mydawgz View Post
    We are!

    I know I am.

    I have no problem with taking a woman out, but wait... my money is for spending and hers is for?

    back in 1869, women didn't have jobs.
    back in 1869, women were dependent on men.

    Today, things have changed. So have the rolls. Women feel they don't need a man for anything. And men feel like they can do whatever they want. I blame Destiny's Child.
    keep your money for youe own self .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nica View Post
    I can't say black men are cheap at all!!! that would be a lie
    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Hershey View Post
    not all black men are cheap
    *pencils in names to bull list*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bake n Shark View Post
    *pencils in names to bull list*
    like you took Swerve's class :
    Those Who Sacrifice Freedom for Security Deserve Neither
    www.cookingwithval.com
    http://www.snackhealthy.com/snackwithval
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nica View Post
    like you took Swerve's class :
    :

    Bull lists 101

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