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    Would you end your marriage over this.....

    You met someone at a party...they live out state, lets say your in Fla. they were visiting from NY. You two talk and get to know each other, like each other very much. But this person enlisted into the military, and shortly after a few months of meeting they head into the service. Well, you all continue to correspond writing letters while their in basic training and such, and when they graduate and move on into their career you all talk on the phone,Text, Email, Facebook, etc for a year plus. You two really fall for each other and even talk about getting married and children in the near future after you two get your lives in order and more settled.

    It's two yrs since you all met...and the time and optimism has started to wane. You start to feel like you all holding yourself back and holding a torch for someone you really haven't spent time with...you have friend of the opposite sex that's been showing you attention and wants to develop your friendship into something more serious. Your military love starts to notice your disinterest and irritability when you communicate. It hits a point where you to have a big falling out...you take time to yourself. You notice that the communication dwindles to nothing that week, but it's ALL GOOD cuz you needed to clear your head anyways.

    So, the following week(week 2 since the falling out)you go on FB...you notice there's no news feed of your military love. So you go to look at their page, and find out that you are no longer friends. This pisses you off to point where you decide to write them off. And, that FRIEND that wanted to take things to another level. Well, you shift your attention over to them. After a few pretty nice months with your new boo and zero contact with the military love, a pregnancy occurs....and 3 months into the pregnancy you all get married not to have your child out of wedlock.

    Now Fast forward 2 yrs since you and the Military love had the falling out, a Year and a Half married with a 1 yr old child. you and your spouse he a rocky patch. It boils over into an argument...your spouse goes into a tirade where they Call your Military Loves name, accusing you of still having feelings for the military love. Then states they should have known better, and in anger reveals that your military love never stop communicating with you. It was your spouse then your friend stopping the communication. You had left your name & password signed in to your e-mail, when you had used their computer. They were jealous and wanted you to themselves, so after the falling out had happen and you were taking time for yourself...they picked up your phone when you were out the room and deleted your ML from your friends list. Then intercepted and deleted a few emails in the weeks after. So ML...thought you didn't want to be bother and was ignoring their attempts of communications.

    Would you want a divorce? How would you handling this situation and revelations?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragon View Post
    Stop reading meh fackin PM

    Oh, sh!t...I meant to say Georgia instead of Fla.
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    I stop reading at enlisted in the military, min you do that all bets are off.
    Man ah Barbeerian bound tuh be by de bar beer in meh hand beastly cold.

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    Quote Originally Posted by notorious saga View Post
    I stop reading at enlisted in the military, min you do that all bets are off.

    Are you implying that the Vagina was also on a "World Tour"?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious View Post
    Are you implying that the Vagina was also on a "World Tour"?
    From time she enlisted in the military the pumz M.I.A
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    Quote Originally Posted by notorious saga View Post
    From time she enlisted in the military the pumz M.I.A

    lol...

    I hear that.

    buh, for the scenario purpose...answer the OP if you did continue to deal with person as they entered the military.
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    Iono...this sound like a regular military man/gyul story...the chic always gets lonely and ventures off...half ah dem military men's kids aint theirs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    Iono...this sound like a regular military man/gyul story...the chic always gets lonely and ventures off...half ah dem military men's kids aint theirs

    shhh...that's another thread, that's coming soon.

    answer the OP...minx.
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    I would say yes, she buggin, marriage will always have rocky patches, (if u care about one another genuinely), and forever is a long time...i always say those who have escaped temptation may as well ga head and give in...if u are contemplating deceit and decide against it...thats just cause its the wrong place, wrong time...eventually u'll find someway to justify it

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    most women never end up with their first choice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NASDAQ View Post
    most women never end up with their first choice.
    thats the thing, it doesn't seem like she's choosing...it seems like she jusss ........

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    i would not be able to trust that spouse so the marriage would probably decline... without trust there is nothing else....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    thats the thing, it doesn't seem like she's choosing...it seems like she jusss ........
    But that’s just it, she didn’t get to choose, spouse chose himself for her... remember she went looking for on FB and saw she was unfriended and decided that since he cut ties with her she might as well check for #2 that was in her ear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NASDAQ View Post
    But that’s just it, she didn’t get to choose, spouse chose himself for her... remember she went looking for on FB and saw she was unfriended and decided that since he cut ties with her she might as well check for #2 that was in her ear.
    She was unfriended because he picked up on her shadyness, if she wasn't being shady then she coulda fixed it, but she was going with the flow...and # 2 was in her ear cause she let him... guys always say they blame the chick cause she LET another dude in...dudes are gonna try u all day long...they only have a chance if u LET them...IMO

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