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    Question Would u help out?

    I haven't spoken to my father in about 2-3 yrs. to make a long story short i called his now wife goldigger and him stupid for letting her. he married her not inviting me and apparently wrote me off on all his ins. papers and things.

    I am not mad at him, but never really felt the need to communicate. he is the type to wait for me to make the first move since i am the "child" anyhow, now my washing machin broke down and i would like him to come check it for me. he is good with those thing.

    if u were him, would you be upset to see me call u just because i need something from him? I have to say he does know how i am, i don't think he would be too surprised.


    * I know it sounds bad, but hey!*

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    yes I'd be upset.... you should apologize to the man.... seems like you are your father's daughter because it seems that both of you are too proud to put aside your differences

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    no, i don't think he will be mad, he probably happy u still need him...u kno how dem does get miserable in dey ole age, sometimes it has nothing to do with us

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    hey he may just be relieved to hear that you're ok ....then again he might also be annoyed that you waited until you needed something before you made contact...he's your dad and he loves you ....i don't think that ever changes for parents no matter what

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    Quote Originally Posted by Poca View Post
    I haven't spoken to my father in about 2-3 yrs. to make a long story short i called his now wife goldigger and him stupid for letting her. he married her not inviting me and apparently wrote me off on all his ins. papers and things.

    I am not mad at him, but never really felt the need to communicate. he is the type to wait for me to make the first move since i am the "child" anyhow, now my washing machin broke down and i would like him to come check it for me. he is good with those thing.

    if u were him, would you be upset to see me call u just because i need something from him? I have to say he does know how i am, i don't think he would be too surprised.


    * I know it sounds bad, but hey!*
    its your dad, its a washing machine, i tink he would kind of expect you to call him for that regardless of if allyuh talking or not. he glad yuh need him an that even tho you sooo vex wid him you will humble an still call for help :

    depending on how big his ego is he might think you broke the machine just to think up an excuse to be able to call him. LOL

    win win regardless of why you had to call him in his eyes you called him first so he wins anyway.

    win - win for both of you, no need to actually discuss his wife the insurance & will issues.
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    He does know that I am fine, because he talk to my grandmother and complain about how i never call him. I did somewhat say sorry to his wife but not for calling her goldigger but just for causing her grief, since i was hearing that it was affecting her. so i told her i am sorry that i making her lose sleep. needless to say that she didn't accept it.

    as far as the old man goes, i know deep down he will be glad.. The washing machin is just the prelude though. My plan is to get him to pay for his grandaughter's school next september.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Poca View Post
    He does know that I am fine, because he talk to my grandmother and complain about how i never call him. I did somewhat say sorry to his wife but not for calling her goldigger but just for causing her grief, since i was hearing that it was affecting her. so i told her i am sorry that i making her lose sleep. needless to say that she didn't accept it.

    as far as the old man goes, i know deep down he will be glad.. The washing machin is just the prelude though. My plan is to get him to pay for his grandaughter's school next september.
    uh-oh you know Picong is gonna start on you mon cherie :
    “A sharp knife never proclaims it’s sharpness to the world…but the first to fall against it becomes it’s advocate.”

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    At least I'm honest!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Poca View Post
    He does know that I am fine, because he talk to my grandmother and complain about how i never call him. I did somewhat say sorry to his wife but not for calling her goldigger but just for causing her grief, since i was hearing that it was affecting her. so i told her i am sorry that i making her lose sleep. needless to say that she didn't accept it.

    as far as the old man goes, i know deep down he will be glad.. The washing machin is just the prelude though. My plan is to get him to pay for his grandaughter's school next september.
    eh-eh he dat put ur child on dis earth....u eh talk to de man for how long and u want him to pay ur child school....well i have heard it all oui
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    from experience Poca - He will be overjoyed to hear from you no matter what the reason you are calling him for. Pick up the phone and call. He will be happy to have any reason to come see you again.
    ~ If you make the mountain any bigger you wont be able to move it later

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    no, i don't think he will be mad, he probably happy u still need him...u kno how dem does get miserable in dey ole age, sometimes it has nothing to do with us
    yep.. daddy's little girl

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    Oh now I understand..

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