View Poll Results: Who to blame?

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  • Let fcuk be free

    1 5.00%
  • Outside person fault

    0 0%
  • Both people make a marriage both to blame for dissolution

    5 25.00%
  • Cheater fault

    14 70.00%
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Thread: Who is to blame: the outside person or the cheating spouse

  1. #106
    Taj
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    Interesting




    This equally yoked thing comes up again.
    But really is Swiss on Alicia's level?
    what happens when the "something new" wears off?
    an outside baby during the marriage ... Mashonda should have left then?
    Maybe they shouldn't have married in the first place?
    what's up with taking care of the household and the kids making the woman "not on the man's level"? Good enough to marry and have kids with and still not..."equal".
    "went looking for trouble and you found it????" lol the trouble existed b4 she went looking. those empty cliche phrases/parables lol
    Interesting to me marriage means you have to work through problems; from what these guys saying from the instant the problem appeared marriage was dead in their eyes it just took 10yrs to make it official so the wife was delusional in the meanwhile thinking it was something that could be worked through?

    Thats interesting ... you should let someone know when you've given up. they seem to be using backward reasoning to explain their "issues".

    Interesting conversation.
    Last edited by Taj; 03-14-2010 at 10:28 PM.
    “A sharp knife never proclaims it’s sharpness to the world…but the first to fall against it becomes it’s advocate.”

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    It really depends on the situation but 9/10 it's the cheater. Instead of cheating, you can always leave. Just my opinion on it.
    "Giving up is hard to do
    When you really love someone
    Giving up .... so hard to do
    When you still depend upon
    Her warm and tender touch
    Her kiss and her hug..........her caress
    Oooooh that used to mean so much
    And bring you happiness"

    - Donny Hathaway

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taj View Post
    Interesting




    This equally yoked thing comes up again.
    But really is Swiss on Alicia's level?
    what happens when the "something new" wears off?
    an outside baby during the marriage ... Mashonda should have left then?
    Maybe they shouldn't have married in the first place?
    what's up with taking care of the household and the kids making the woman "not on the man's level"? Good enough to marry and have kids with and still not..."equal".
    "went looking for trouble and you found it????" lol the trouble existed b4 she went looking. those empty cliche phrases/parables lol
    Interesting to me marriage means you have to work through problems; from what these guys saying from the instant the problem appeared marriage was dead in their eyes it just took 10yrs to make it official so the wife was delusional in the meanwhile thinking it was something that could be worked through?

    Thats interesting ... you should let someone know when you've given up. they seem to be using backward reasoning to explain their "issues".

    Interesting conversation.
    Exactly so.

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    wow...i didn't know this, i too thought that they were separated...i blame Alicia, as much as i love her as an artist...men are easily distracted, she should have had respect for his wife asking her to step back and for the sanctity of marriage....shame Alicia!!!

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    well it the cheat spouse they have control what will happen

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    They both cheated on each other

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