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  • Let fcuk be free

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  • Outside person fault

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  • Both people make a marriage both to blame for dissolution

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Thread: Who is to blame: the outside person or the cheating spouse

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    Alot of details are unknown to the public, and should stay that way. We will never really know who to blame.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KaisoStrum View Post
    Alot of details are unknown to the public, and should stay that way. We will never really know who to blame.
    same thing i saying....we would never know.....
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    its swizz and ak fault....

    but you know a lot of times i find tha the spouse who is being cheatedon never knew that the cheating spouse was "unhappy"
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    Quote Originally Posted by . View Post
    "black people love talk about drama instead of serious issues"



    quote taken from someone on facebook whenasked about the situation
    my instant response to your post ...."who the fukk cares"

    and actually their "drama" is a universal theme and problem men cheat, women cheat, divorces happen families are broken and children and relationships are affected. If mash up households aint a serious issue well then I'm glad you have a great life.
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    blame...well..first we gotta find out who first lied....who first initiated the first flirt, call, email, text, picture mail etc! then we can say who is wrong...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hype View Post
    blame...well..first we gotta find out who first lied....who first initiated the first flirt, call, email, text, picture mail etc! then we can say who is wrong...
    yeah that too
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    It's Swiz' fault for allowing AK to dissolve his marriage.

    As stated by a few folks in here, you should had issues with the person who vowed to be faithful to you.

    And also we do not know the full story. It seems like they've been on the outs since 2007. Mashonda need to stop following Akeys on twitter.... the man leaving you and you trailing the other woman. Is the man you should seek answers from.
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    All the best to them. We don't know what Swizz telling Alicia and what he telling his wife. All I can say is I wish them the best and like Mashonda said, leave to God to deal with it as he sees fit.

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    We really don't know the details of the life this couple lived. something went wrong along time ago, and unfortunately or irresponsibility Mashonda was last to know. Just because ur happy with ur marriage, doesn't mean ur spouse is.....Swizz could have been putting up a front, or had let his feelings be known, or maybe just out grew the relationship. We just don't know.
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    people need to understand themselves and be very clear. Did Swizzie ever say he believed in monogamy. Did Mashonda ask him directly?

    People need to stop have ridiculous expectations of others and be honest about themselves and know themselves and the people they marry.

    Folks marry strangers and look for all kinds of excuses and others to blame

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    Quote Originally Posted by CocoErotika View Post
    people need to understand themselves and be very clear. Did Swizzie ever say he believed in monogamy. Did Mashonda ask him directly?

    People need to stop have ridiculous expectations of others and be honest about themselves and know themselves and the people they marry.

    Folks marry strangers and look for all kinds of excuses and others to blame

    Do u talk same in person, as the way u type?
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    You don't act proper, you just act angry. You act like a angry racist white new york cop.-Namey Namey


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    MÉCHANT LOUP a battyman. - Namey Namey

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colossus View Post
    Do u talk same in person, as the way u type?
    what kind of idiot a$$ question is this? I am a grown ass woman. I do not have time to create an online character. that's for mentally diseased people. I am me all day every day

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colossus View Post
    We really don't know the details of the life this couple lived. something went wrong along time ago, and unfortunately or irresponsibility Mashonda was last to know. Just because ur happy with ur marriage, doesn't mean ur spouse is.....Swizz could have been putting up a front, or had let his feelings be known, or maybe just out grew the relationship. We just don't know.
    Wow, I actually agree with something u said lol

    Quote Originally Posted by CocoErotika View Post
    what kind of idiot a$$ question is this? I am a grown ass woman. I do not have time to create an online character. that's for mentally diseased people. I am me all day every day

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    Quote Originally Posted by CocoErotika View Post
    what kind of idiot a$$ question is this? I am a grown ass woman. I do not have time to create an online character. that's for mentally diseased people. I am me all day every day

    thankyou...
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    MÉCHANT LOUP like women? The only thing MÉCHANT LOUP like more than hearing that a blackman was gunned down by cops, is a hairy man ass. - Namey Namey


    MÉCHANT LOUP a battyman. - Namey Namey

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colossus View Post

    thankyou...
    well if you have to ask that must mean most of your posts are full of bs.
    If you type like yourself, you wouldnt assume others dont.

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