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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    Gotta question people need an ansa...why does some people jealous bad?
    Jealousy comes from being insecure.
    *I have been Born Again*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skilzman
    If you have that then jealously wont be a problem.
    I almost disagreed until I reread your statement ...trust...yeah I guess that is the BIG issue...


    @Dragon...thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    And what if you do have all that den what?
    Well if you dont communicate with your partner then you cant build trust ie trust grows with constant communication. They both go together.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandobaby
    Well if you dont communicate with your partner then you cant build trust ie trust grows with constant communication. They both go together.
    Well for me...I can communicate ...I love to tell my partner things...but I dont TRUST...that is the big one...how do I learn to trust?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    trust...yeah I guess that is the BIG issue...
    That is a whole next thread.
    Trust Issues

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    jealousy isnt only when youre in a relationship... sometimes jealousy can drive you to do better.... dont you think??

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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    Well for me...I can communicate ...I love to tell my partner things...but I dont TRUST...that is the big one...how do I learn to trust?
    Could it be that you insecure?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    Gotta question people need an ansa...why does some people jealous bad?
    you have what they don't have or can't foresee themselves having...

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    jealously comes from within, because you are without

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    If yuh sure about your relationship or yuh tink yuh safe wit yuh partner, that only comes from a lot of communication with would build trust and confidence in your partner.... leaving no room for jealousy...

    I trust my partner because he know that whatever he could/want to do outside of the relationship, I COULD DO IT TOO.

    So give trust and respect where it is due....

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    Quote Originally Posted by RotiKing2004eva
    jealously comes from within, because you are without
    I could hear Yoda saying that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carib_xtc
    jealousy isnt only when youre in a relationship... sometimes jealousy can drive you to do better.... dont you think??
    yes I do but this is coming from relationship issues...


    @ skilzman...could be ...I dont know...I have a BIG trust issue...but same time...I want to change it...I dont want to live my life this way...I mean I love myself and I embrace the things I am good at...but I just lack TRUST and this causes a huge problem for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    skilzman...could be ...I dont know...I have a BIG trust issue...but same time...I want to change it...I dont want to live my life this way...I mean I love myself and I embrace the things I am good at...but I just lack TRUST and this causes a huge problem for me
    Did you have a bad experience in the past?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skilzman
    Did you have a bad experience in the past?
    MANY...which I try to rid meself of daily...I dont know where dis shyt coming from but I cant stand jealous people but I findin out dat I may be one...and so far it leading back to TRUST issues..I here reading up on de thread link

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    Quote Originally Posted by JACHINYGAL
    Well for me...I can communicate ...I love to tell my partner things...but I dont TRUST...that is the big one...how do I learn to trust?
    Give you partner space, let them have friends and a life outside of your relationship. Stop calling constantly to check up or find out where he/she is. Let them know that yuh not looking for somebody and find things to do for yourself ie friends, hobbies etc. Make sure that your love for that person does not replace that love for yourself, that is very important...

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