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    Question When you lend people money...

    do you ask them what for? or do you just lend dem blindly? does it depends who it is? do you make them sign some sort of agreement (for large sums really)? and why do people seem to get upset when you say no you can't help them like they doing you a favor when you lend them?

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    doh ever expect to get it back..count it as a given...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Terryfabulous
    do you ask them what for? or do you just lend dem blindly? does it depends who it is? do you make them sign some sort of agreement (for large sums really)? and why do people seem to get upset when you say no you can't help them like they doing you a favor when you lend them?
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    Quote Originally Posted by clchick
    doh ever expect to get it back..count it as a given...
    Cuz is anotha sh!t story to get it back!

    Normally dem does tell yuh deh whole life story and how dem born and raise b 4 deh really ask fuh di money... agreements no matter unless yuh wanna go through the stress of court... Just think of it as lost to you in trut.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Terryfabulous
    do you ask them what for? or do you just lend dem blindly? does it depends who it is? do you make them sign some sort of agreement (for large sums really)? and why do people seem to get upset when you say no you can't help them like they doing you a favor when you lend them?
    yeah everything is on a case by case basis....like my brother, if he ask me to lend him money, i count dat as lost.he only has a credit line of $100. but my sister, yeah, she got a good line of credit. lol sad but true!
    "Stop talking about it and BE about it"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Terryfabulous
    do you ask them what for? or do you just lend dem blindly? does it depends who it is? do you make them sign some sort of agreement (for large sums really)? and why do people seem to get upset when you say no you can't help them like they doing you a favor when you lend them?
    I DO NOT lend people MONEY.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trinithunda27
    yeah everything is on a case by case basis....like my brother, if he ask me to lend him money, i count dat as lost.he only has a credit line of $100. but my sister, yeah, she got a good line of credit. lol sad but true!
    Sorry but

    What's his score 2?

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    Quote Originally Posted by trinithunda27
    yeah everything is on a case by case basis....like my brother, if he ask me to lend him money, i count dat as lost.he only has a credit line of $100. but my sister, yeah, she got a good line of credit. lol sad but true!
    There's such a thing?

    anyway, I've learnt my lesson about lending ppl money. never again.

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    I dont lend out money nor pots if I have extra I will give it ta ya that way I dont have ta act a fool
    *I have been Born Again*

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAHTEE
    I dont lend out money nor pots if I have extra I will give it ta ya that way I dont have ta act a fool
    sounding like my grandmother right there....calling round the place to find out who have she pot....lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by zouk
    There's such a thing?

    anyway, I've learnt my lesson about lending ppl money. never again.
    well, i don't know his credit score, but with me......ha!!!! lol 0
    "Stop talking about it and BE about it"

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    i feel d owness is on the person asking for the money to say upfront what it is they borrowin it for....if u kno me well enuff to ax me fuh money you would kno dam well ah go ax yuh fuh what...cuz i brokes as it is...so me lennin u money hahtuh be fuh someting dat eh dotish

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    Quote Originally Posted by Terryfabulous
    do you ask them what for? or do you just lend dem blindly? does it depends who it is? do you make them sign some sort of agreement (for large sums really)? and why do people seem to get upset when you say no you can't help them like they doing you a favor when you lend them?
    I never had to lend anyone money except my siblings and its usually $100 or lower...but yeah if its a big sum we're talking about then sure...I would want to know what you gonna do with all that money.

    And, the only amounts I'd lend blindly (to friends) is $100 and below....can't take any chances with big sums 'cuz I don't want to go through the hassle of hunting anybody down for my money, lol.

    About ppl getting upset when you say no: Hmmmm, money is a touchy subject....some ppl lose friends over it (I don't think I would go that far though) that's why I'd have to get to the lowest lows of desperation before I ask anyone outside of my family for a loan.......

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