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    What makes people we know that are bad for us so attractive?

    We've all been here....

    Much like booze, cigarettes and reality TV, we know bad boys and girls are, well, bad for us, but we just can’t help ourselves. Why do we crave something we know is trouble? Is this called ‘frustration attraction’? It’s a very common part of romantic love.

    Even if you don’t like someone that much, if you find out they don’t like you or people are telling you to dump them, you suddenly want them more! These kinds of relationships could literally become an addiction where you do crazy things: You wait all night by the phone or even join in dangerous behaviors.

    If you’re stuck on such a shady character, try to find the reason you’re so smitten: Some people are attracted to the challenge of changing or improving a wayward partner; others may be seeking the added excitement that comes from unpredictable types. Knowing your motivations can help give you control over your emotions—and hightail it out of there if things get too dicey or the relationship starts to self-destruct.

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    Do you have a tabanca?

    Have you been watching Oprah of sehing so?

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    Quote Originally Posted by XtasyReds View Post
    Do you have a tabanca?

    Have you been watching Oprah of sehing so?
    no...I don't even know what time Oprah does be on TV

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    Quote Originally Posted by clchick View Post
    We've all been here....

    Much like booze, cigarettes and reality TV, we know bad boys and girls are, well, bad for us, but we just can’t help ourselves. Why do we crave something we know is trouble? Is this called ‘frustration attraction’? It’s a very common part of romantic love.

    Even if you don’t like someone that much, if you find out they don’t like you or people are telling you to dump them, you suddenly want them more! These kinds of relationships could literally become an addiction where you do crazy things: You wait all night by the phone or even join in dangerous behaviors.

    If you’re stuck on such a shady character, try to find the reason you’re so smitten: Some people are attracted to the challenge of changing or improving a wayward partner; others may be seeking the added excitement that comes from unpredictable types. Knowing your motivations can help give you control over your emotions—and hightail it out of there if things get too dicey or the relationship starts to self-destruct.
    opposites attract!!! i think its more of the same scenario as when you tell a chile to not touch the hot stove. they wonder why and when they get burn that is when they learn. no matter how much someone tells you to NOT be with that person you are going to do still be with them to see why not.

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    boils down to attraction...once again.

    It makes most people DELUSIONAL and makes them RATIONALIZE.

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    Exclamation hmm..............!

    stupidity!

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    Quote Originally Posted by clchick View Post
    We've all been here....

    Much like booze, cigarettes and reality TV, we know bad boys and girls are, well, bad for us, but we just can’t help ourselves. Why do we crave something we know is trouble? Is this called ‘frustration attraction’? It’s a very common part of romantic love.

    Even if you don’t like someone that much, if you find out they don’t like you or people are telling you to dump them, you suddenly want them more! These kinds of relationships could literally become an addiction where you do crazy things: You wait all night by the phone or even join in dangerous behaviors.

    If you’re stuck on such a shady character, try to find the reason you’re so smitten: Some people are attracted to the challenge of changing or improving a wayward partner; others may be seeking the added excitement that comes from unpredictable types. Knowing your motivations can help give you control over your emotions—and hightail it out of there if things get too dicey or the relationship starts to self-destruct.
    STUPIDITY n INSECURITY.

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    Women get turned on by the fact their friends will call them dumb for dating me plus all the free tickets they can get to fetes

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    Quote Originally Posted by hondurantrini View Post
    opposites attract!!! i think its more of the same scenario as when you tell a chile to not touch the hot stove. they wonder why and when they get burn that is when they learn. no matter how much someone tells you to NOT be with that person you are going to do still be with them to see why not.
    well said.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Moderator View Post
    Women get turned on by the fact their friends will call them dumb for dating me plus all the free tickets they can get to fetes
    how are you Mr. Moderator...

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