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Old 02-21-2012, 10:16 AM   #1 (permalink)
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What kind of "Fatherly Advice" is this?

Folks wants heads on a platter because of this controversial Too Short video interview (I never got a chance to see it) The video on the XXL website was subsequently taken down and statements from the magazine was issued


This is what Too Short said and the magazine labeled it "Fatherly Advice"
“When you get to late middle school, early high school and you start feeling a certain way about the girls… I’m gonna tell you a couple tricks. This is what you do, man. A lot of the boys are going to be running around trying to get kisses from the girls, we’re going way past that. I’m taking you to the hole.

There’s a general area down there, a little spot that girls have that feels really good to them. Don’t kiss them down there yet, that’s later in life. But this is what you do. You push her up against the wall or pull her up against you while you lean on the wall and you take your finger and put a little spit on it and you stick your finger in her underwear and you rub it on there and watch what happens. It’s like magic. You gotta find her spot, they all have a different one, but it’s somewhere in there. Just go for it. When you feel like it becomes a little more moist that’s when you know you’re doing it right.”
there is an online petition
Color Of Change Calls For Firing of XXL Magazine CEO Over Too $hort’s ‘Fatherly Advice
ColorOfChange.org | Tell Harris Publications: Fire Vanessa Satten
“Join us in calling on Harris Publications to fire XXL Editor-in-Chief Vanessa Satten, who presides over the workplace culture that allowed such a grave misstep. When we do, we’ll send a message to the entertainment media industry that we won’t be silent when it broadcasts commentary that promotes sexual violence against girls and women.”
FYI Vanessa Satten is a white woman
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:20 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:28 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by femmeayitienne View Post
smh

and when I ask/talk about young boys sexually traumatizing young girls... I get labeled a feminist. We live in a culture where we teach our boys to be sexually aggressive yet want our daughters to be chaste so they only way boys can prove themselves is by sexually traumatizing these young girls.
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:30 AM   #4 (permalink)
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This is crazy. smh

However that petition... What sexual violence are they referring to?
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:30 AM   #5 (permalink)
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i dont get surprised anymore when rappers say stuff like this...

that is worse than when Trick Daddy said how in Dade County, the cops are more harsh on you when it comes to domestic violence, so he drives his wife to Broward County to beat her up

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Old 02-21-2012, 10:36 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
This is crazy. smh

However that petition... What sexual violence are they referring to?
the fact that you dont see it.......

smh


is quite telling
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:38 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Black Madonna View Post
the fact that you dont see it.......

smh


is quite telling
Thats perfectly fine.
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:40 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Hello BKLYN View Post
i dont get surprised anymore when rappers say stuff like this...

that is worse than when Trick Daddy said how in Dade County, the cops are more harsh on you when it comes to domestic violence, so he drives his wife to Broward County to beat her up

It's not about him being a rapper. He's a man. a black man, offering advice to other young men, mostly young black men. T-Makaa doesnt even recognize the sexual violence in what was said.

I have asked the question on this board more than once over the years if you men can recognize the sexual trauma you have inflicted on women over the years. and before the men could accept responsibility for their sexual behaviors...they just cuss me.
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:43 AM   #9 (permalink)
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wow. smh.
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:52 AM   #10 (permalink)
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well well and they printed it

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Old 02-21-2012, 11:14 AM   #11 (permalink)
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well well and they printed it
it was a video interview and they posted the video the website. that's why they want Vanessa Satten fired, but she claims she didnt see the video before it posted

I’d like to address the ongoing controversy surrounding the Too $hort video and try to set the record straight.
Last Friday, I received an email from a reader about a Too $hort video that had posted on XXLMag.com. Without having seen the video yet, I immediately forwarded the email to my web staff, watched the video and had it taken down immediately. As the Editor-in-Chief of both the magazine and the web site, I do not see all content before it posts live. As is typical at many media companies, with the rapid pace the web moves, I empower the online editors to produce and post content that goes live without my approval.
As soon as I learned about the video, I had it taken down.
As a woman, I in no way find the content of the video acceptable. To think I would ever approve anything that would harm women or endanger children is absurd. Under no terms should sexual assault be tolerated, nor do I endorse making light of it.
The staffers responsible for producing and posting this video have since been suspended. We are currently implementing changes in our posting process to ensure something like this never happens again. I am not trying to pass this off on my staff but unfortunately an awful judgment call was made.
The video in no way represents my views, XXL‘s or those of the company.
To the people who are offended by the video, I agree with you. That’s why I had it immediately taken down.
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Old 02-21-2012, 11:18 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Old 02-21-2012, 11:21 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Black Madonna View Post
it was a video interview and they posted the video the website. that's why they want Vanessa Satten fired, but she claims she didnt see the video before it posted
So you think that we black men should feel guilty and shame because of what some punky said?

pathetic

i think that you and most black women should feel shame for worshiping this dude and also for taking these type of Rapper seriously, while expected them to be some kind of role model for you children instead seeing them for what they really are?

they are a bunch of looser

your obsession with them are the reason why they think they are somehow relevant to the point where they can even receive a platform to say those stupidity

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Old 02-21-2012, 11:31 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Too $hort is a boss.

Whoever is scandalized or offended by this never had a playa for a father. So they can never understand.
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Originally Posted by Capitaine View Post
So you think that we black men should feel guilty and shame because of what some punky said?

pathetic

i think that you and most black women should feel shame for worshiping this dude and also for taking these type of Rapper seriously, while expected them to be some kind of role model for you children instead seeing them for what they really are?

they are a bunch of looser

your obsession with them are the reason why they think they are somehow relevant to the point where they can even receive a platform to say those stupidity

Blame the person in the Mirror
sit this one out. you're outta your league
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