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didnt more than one person say that? y u actin so? U shouldnt even be reacting to "criticism" like this either..You don't bring up any "issues" or "conflicts" to gain understanding you want to hear you are right and whoever is the other party to the issue or conflict was wrong. It goes downhill fast if people don't take the correct fork in your path. As it just did when you answered me.
rigggght...whatever......i asked you to show me an example of when i do that...and i even picked out a particular quote from myself and you didn't answer...i am convinced that is your delusions because i ask questions and raise issues that you are not prepared to address......and 99% of the time I AM RIGHT.....you just hate to admit it....lol
because the only issue i really delve into on this board is the black male/female relationship dynamic.....and i have NEVER been wrong yet......oh and perhaps pro black african american shit.....but unno speak from a caribbean perspective rife with bias, and have no clue into the mentality of african americans....the problem with you people is that ALL unno can do is SPECULATE and speak hypothetically.....that's why most a unno men always SPECULATE about what WOMEN THINK....but unno NEVER speak from personal knowledge....and the fact that I SUBSTANTIATE EVERYTHING i say, and I CAN speak authoritatively, while unno can only guess and theorize, is why unno make up all kinds of bullshit about my approach.....you people are full of SHIT....
now go in Tolomb thread and address what i said in there if you can....but YOU CAN'T.....and that is the perfect example of the BULLSHIT you want to try deflect on me....################ outta here
you ALL AGREE with my opinion, which is why NONE of you ever EFFECTIVELY DISPUTE IT
you ONLY have faith in the WOMEN'S ability to ELEVATE which is why you only FOCUS ON WOMEN...you ALL have long given up on Black men
you just don't have the BALLS to OVERTLY AGREE....rather just do it INDIRECTLY
weak men only can deal with weaker women
in the presence of strength you diminish...
I really dont get how you can make this thread and then fight up the ppl who are telling u how they feel. We tell u..then u want an example? I will answer this, I can even have one or two people testify to this.. i dont answer alot of these questions on here because saying too much reveals too much about myself and i make it a habit to separate my personal life from IMIX. I have answered these same questions to people in PM when asked. None of these topics are over my head..
With Browni example i think it more applies to when u come with a story and ppl comment on it.. u try ur best to convince others u are right and the individual in the story is wrong.. especially when its a story involving u and another person.
Its sad that u often think u win battles, but alot of times its people just saying "whatever" in their head because u stuck in one direction.
what is sad, is that you see anything as a battle, when to me it's just a discussion....and i have NEVER posed a right or wrong story, asking if i was right and someone else is wrong.....but....you are convinced that i want to be right all the time, when all i want is INSIGHT.....that is your hangup not mine
i speak of my marriage, and if you look at ANY STORY i have ever told about my marriage, I NEVER BLAMED MY HUSBAND or said he was a bad man or wrong...I ALWAYS MAINTAINED that it failed because OF ME....
the other day, i told a story of a man i was with for 11 years...and AGAIN, i didn't blame him....nor did i paint him out to be a negative man or wrong in the situation.....i called him HONORABLE AND LOYAL and a GOOD MAN...and i just wasn't deemed worthy.......so come again
when you can provide me PROOF to SUBSTANTIATE your claims that is not filled with your BIASED PREJUDICE against me that was established from DAY ONE because i said i was a LESBIAN....then i might consider what you said in this thread as being remotely credible.....and both you and TOPPA, and brownilus fall into that category.....
i don't care what you do in PM....bottom line is you never SUBSTANTIATE SHIT....and that is all i care about.....without substantiation, ALL CLAIMS ARE NULL AND VOID
you ALL AGREE with my opinion, which is why NONE of you ever EFFECTIVELY DISPUTE IT
you ONLY have faith in the WOMEN'S ability to ELEVATE which is why you only FOCUS ON WOMEN...you ALL have long given up on Black men
you just don't have the BALLS to OVERTLY AGREE....rather just do it INDIRECTLY
weak men only can deal with weaker women
in the presence of strength you diminish...
thank you. a PEEPER decided to speak for people who already spoke for themselves. what is even the point of referencing that dumb shit? Everybody already say what they had to say.. all this extra shit... is ridiculous. my name shoulda never come up in this thread period..
Initially your attitude (or whatever I percieved as such from your posts) put me off from taking you seriously. I am not above putting aside my impressions of someone's online persona to address a serious topic however, so if I do have something to add I usually will. It also doesn't help that at times you have an abrasive style (yeah ah kno, I ha one too lol) taking things that I have offered as a serious response and magnifying it to try and apply it to other situations that really don't fit. I think the fact that you and BM are sisters has an effect on how you are viewed as well. Despite the clear contrast between you two, just knowing you are related is enough lol.
Yeah ah kno ah rell late an shit, too bad!!!
Space available for RENT
tsk tsk tsk SMH. well then maybe these people need to gain some perspective and clarity and learn how the separate shit. because if there is a clear contrast and people still can't separate shit... then chances are they do that shit in other areas of their lives too and that affects overall quality of life.