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T-MAKAA · 11-05-2009, 03:54 PM

Originally Posted by Appleton

LOL...I know..and I completely accept that .

Is it? You wouldn't think that maybe something has come up? I'm running around all the time at work..If my husband called and left a message on my direct line..he'll wait for me to get back because he'd figure that something has come up..Similar thing I do when I call him...Hmmm Maybe we're not normal?

ummmm. The bolded is the difference. That is what your process is.. However he normally does differently. Did you read the process Orangeton..or all you saw was a woman calling numerous times?..and called another womans job?..ok I see below you did read the process.

Originally Posted by Appleton

Lol..it's funny that you say there is no drama..I wonder what you would say if you were at work and your woman was calling or complained that she was calling and didn't get you...The reason why I think drama will emerge..is when she called the friend she didn't say she was 'worried' about him as she hasn't heard from him all day......If she had said that..then his 'friend' would have reassured her not lie..if it was really him..

Later, on in the evening...now after work, at the usual time when he reaches home and is settled. You call his home phone, no answer...so, you try his mobile line again, straight voicemail

T-MAKAA · 11-05-2009, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by Colossus

is that really constructive?

anyways....

so, he's pissed obviously cuz ur being out of control an not giving him any chance to have a constructive conversation.

so he says...

"Babes, I didn't do anything wrong...

I want you to believe me. I know you trust me, and things are looking real fcuk up. But you have believe that I wouldn't do anything purposely to hurt you?

The truth is, I didn't go in today...

Sheryl is going thru some somethings and needed a friend, and she ask me to be there for her. So, I did...I didn't tell you becuz I couldn't share what was going on. And, also...I didn't know how you react with me saying I'm going to be there for her and you don't know what's going on."

what do you do or say to him at this point?

U want the ladies to answer this bs right?

Colossus · 11-05-2009, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by T-MAKAA

U want the ladies to answer this bs right?

well, yeh....

uh, sir can i get my credits out this b1tch b4 you shur sh!t down?

Flickin Killa! · 11-05-2009, 04:07 PM

Originally Posted by Dark & Lovely

opTION 4..

pulling his ass right out the flipping shower!!!

U need anger management bad. Are you on drugs? Why you putting your hands on him in any manner that isn't loving or playful? If ah man do dat is all kinda bullshit woman will have to say about it.

Appleton I agree with you 100%

What this scenario shows is that this female feels the need to control things and when she cant she will be restless. Unless there is a legit emergency wherein his presence is required, there is absolutely no need for that type of constant calling. Lemme enhance dis based on what has been revealed so far:

What if this was the day he decided "I need a breedah from dis woman," ah love she but fuh god sake ah cah take this "up unda me, have to talk to me several times a day" behavior today. So he decides I not talkin to she until I ready today, cell phone was basically dead since he leave fuh wuk cause he fuhget to charge lass night. Felt the need to ask someone (and who better than a woman you know) am I crazy fuh feeling this way? She knowing him as well as she does senses this is serious for him and is causing some inner confusion, invites him over to truly talk about it (purely innocent). He says if she call doh leh she kno ah ova here nah, cause de way how she acting she might feel is some kinda scenes goin on with me and you. BFF doesn't want to be in the middle but agrees (afterall her allegiance is to him as his best friend). So when SO calls she says yeah I did talk to him but I don't know where he is. He in the background not having relized she was on the phone speaks to her and is heard by the SO.

So now yuh gone chargin ova deh like ah mad bull and he say lets talk about this later, because now you're showing up adds another negative dimension for him to consider. He thinkin "WTF really goin on here? Nah dis might ha to end oui" So you insist nah we ha to talk now, he say follow me if you wish and jump in he car. While driving home it is now confirmed in his head "dis hatto done cause dis chick psycho" You reach by him and drag him out the shower?!!!! He then grabs his phone and dials 911 and you either get carted of for a minor offense or the rage you are in causes you to do something crazy jeopordizing your freedom. Would it have been worth it?! Now I realize it go ha plenty sayin all kinda things but again I added based only on what was revealed so far, nothing else so unless new facts available this could very well be possible.

Flickin Killa! · 11-05-2009, 04:11 PM

OK so col fcuk up my scenario

but still that chick is ah high maintenance nut job!

Colossus · 11-05-2009, 04:21 PM

LOL@ Killa'

Well, he eventually tells her what's going on....

Sheryl asked him to go with her to the abortion clinic. She slept with some dude she been messing around with. dude don't know, and will never know. He didn't keep his phone on to answer ur calls because, he's simply not good at lying and didn't want seem suspicious. So he rather cut off the phone handle the business and deal with the aftermath later. Sheryl only lied because she knew u would get suspicious of why he didn't go to work, and he was over there. When you heard him in the background, he was looking for some ingredients to make some soup for her. She was in the bed resting from the procedure, when you had called.

Do you believe him? Forgive him? Lose trust? Cuss Sheryl out? What now.....

Flickin Killa! · 11-05-2009, 04:24 PM

Originally Posted by Colossus

LOL@ Killa'

Well, he eventually tells her what's going on....

Sheryl asked him to go with her to the abortion clinic. She slept with some dude she been messing around with. dude don't know, and will never know. He didn't keep his phone on to answer ur calls because, he's simply not good at lying and didn't want seem suspicious. So he rather cut off the phone handle the business and deal with the aftermath later. Sheryl only lied because she knew u would get suspicious of why he didn't go to work, and he was over there. When you heard him in the background, he was looking for some ingredients to make some soup for her. She was in the bed resting from the procedure, when you had called.

Do you believe him? Forgive him? Lose trust? Cuss Sheryl out? What now.....

My question is why de hell he stayin wid she if she so insecure?

Colossus · 11-05-2009, 04:46 PM

Originally Posted by Flickin Killa!

My question is why de hell he stayin wid she if she so insecure?

as much as u and appleton want to paint her being neurotic & insecure. He doing a find job of bring out those charcteristic by the way he handle things. He handle things in accordance to He & his friend, not Him & his SO'.

T-MAKAA · 11-05-2009, 04:53 PM

Y did Sheryl lie...Sheryl lie means she knows her "friend" will lie to his girl.. what a great friend Sheryl is.

T-MAKAA · 11-05-2009, 04:55 PM

Originally Posted by Flickin Killa!

U need anger management bad. Are you on drugs? Why you putting your hands on him in any manner that isn't loving or playful? If ah man do dat is all kinda bullshit woman will have to say about it.

Appleton I agree with you 100%

What this scenario shows is that this female feels the need to control things and when she cant she will be restless. Unless there is a legit emergency wherein his presence is required, there is absolutely no need for that type of constant calling. Lemme enhance dis based on what has been revealed so far:

What if this was the day he decided "I need a breedah from dis woman," ah love she but fuh god sake ah cah take this "up unda me, have to talk to me several times a day" behavior today. So he decides I not talkin to she until I ready today, cell phone was basically dead since he leave fuh wuk cause he fuhget to charge lass night. Felt the need to ask someone (and who better than a woman you know) am I crazy fuh feeling this way? She knowing him as well as she does senses this is serious for him and is causing some inner confusion, invites him over to truly talk about it (purely innocent). He says if she call doh leh she kno ah ova here nah, cause de way how she acting she might feel is some kinda scenes goin on with me and you. BFF doesn't want to be in the middle but agrees (afterall her allegiance is to him as his best friend). So when SO calls she says yeah I did talk to him but I don't know where he is. He in the background not having relized she was on the phone speaks to her and is heard by the SO.

So now yuh gone chargin ova deh like ah mad bull and he say lets talk about this later, because now you're showing up adds another negative dimension for him to consider. He thinkin "WTF really goin on here? Nah dis might ha to end oui" So you insist nah we ha to talk now, he say follow me if you wish and jump in he car. While driving home it is now confirmed in his head "dis hatto done cause dis chick psycho" You reach by him and drag him out the shower?!!!! He then grabs his phone and dials 911 and you either get carted of for a minor offense or the rage you are in causes you to do something crazy jeopordizing your freedom. Would it have been worth it?! Now I realize it go ha plenty sayin all kinda things but again I added based only on what was revealed so far, nothing else so unless new facts available this could very well be possible.

BS..but u know what I could buy that.. lol

Dark & Lovely · 11-05-2009, 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by Colossus

is that really constructive?

anyways....

so, he's pissed obviously cuz ur being out of control an not giving him any chance to have a constructive conversation.

so he says...

"Babes, I didn't do anything wrong...

I want you to believe me. I know you trust me, and things are looking real fcuk up. But you have believe that I wouldn't do anything purposely to hurt you?

The truth is, I didn't go in today...

Sheryl is going thru some somethings and needed a friend, and she ask me to be there for her. So, I did...I didn't tell you becuz I couldn't share what was going on. And, also...I didn't know how you react with me saying I'm going to be there for her and you don't know what's going on."

what do you do or say to him at this point?

sTEUUUUPPPS AND KILLA I DONT NEED NO DAMN ANGER MANAGEMENT AND NO ..NO MEDICATION IS NEEDED...

HE NEED A DAMN CUFF FOR LIEING IN THE BEGINNING... HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN SECURE WITH HIS RELATIONSHIP TO TELL HIS GIRLFRIEND THE TRUTH STRAIGHT UP...
SIMPLE,......IF THE SHOE WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT I WONDER HOW HE WOULD HAVE REACTED......HMMMMMM

DO SO DONT LIKE SO.... LIKE MY MOMMA WOULD SAY

Flickin Killa! · 11-05-2009, 05:06 PM

Originally Posted by T-MAKAA

BS..but u know what I could buy that.. lol

U musse neva had ah clingy oman before so u could say da. When ah woman clingy and yuh get tiyad ah da is de mos sickenin kinda shit to ha to deal wit oui.

DnL u are a flippin psycho an yuh damn well kno it

Appleton · 11-05-2009, 07:04 PM

Originally Posted by T-MAKAA

ummmm. The bolded is the difference. That is what your process is.. However he normally does differently. Did you read the process Orangeton..or all you saw was a woman calling numerous times?..and called another womans job?..ok I see below you did read the process.Later, on in the evening...now after work, at the usual time when he reaches home and is settled. You call his home phone, no answer...so, you try his mobile line again, straight voicemail

T..I still think you're not getting my point...My interpretation of the story was based on the woman's behaviour. The fact that the best friend is female is peripheral. Women are always the ones complaining that the man didn't call..why is that? If a woman and a man are in a relationship and she does not hear from him for 12 hours is that the end of the world? No..How emotionally secure can you be to have this kind of reaction just because you didn't hear from your man all day?...

From the story they don't live together yet her day appeared to have been caught up with calling him while he was doing what he had to do. How strong can your relationship be if the moment you don't hear from your SO you break down? Whether or not you have a routine..real life doesn't come with a script. and her reaction does not make allowances for that...If she was busy living her life rather than living through his the day would have flown by before she noticed that he did not call...This is a common reaction/complaint by many women...yet they are always in unhappy relationships...If you have to call your man consistently throughout the day to validate your relationship then your relationship is weak.

Appleton · 11-05-2009, 07:07 PM

Originally Posted by Colossus

as much as u and appleton want to paint her being neurotic & insecure. He doing a find job of bring out those charcteristic by the way he handle things. He handle things in accordance to He & his friend, not Him & his SO'.

neurotic is your word Col..and yes she's insecure..No strong woman needs to call her man so many times throughout the day...The fact the his best friend is female does not negate her need to validate her relationship through constant connection with the man. She didn't hear from him for 1 day and she didn't know what to do with herself.

Colossus · 11-05-2009, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by Appleton

neurotic is your word Col..and yes she's insecure..No strong woman needs to call her man so many times throughout the day...The fact the his best friend is female does not negate her need to validate her relationship through constant connection with the man. She didn't hear from him for 1 day and she didn't know what to do with herself.

honey, you junped to a conclusion...
and didn't pick up the vibe of the scenario. If you re-read it's early lines. Every action/step she took was related to the norm/tone/pattern of their interaction.

example....

Originally Posted by Colossus

It's a normal day at work...You feel to pick up the phone and call ur SO', who also is at work too. He has his own office & phone. So, you call his direct line, it rings until it goes to voicemail. So, you call the switch line operator, and ask if he is in his office...she says, she doesn't know annd can tranfer you back over to line. so, you allow she to do so. Samething happens, it rings until it reaches voicemail again. So, u find this to be unsual... becuz when steps out the office he switches his phone to automatic voicemail.

for a person, to find such a simple thing as man not picking up his direct line.....

he had to be someone who always picks his line, and when he steps out he switches to his mobile. There's a History/pattern there...same way as if a man spends money in everywere him and that woman goes. why would it be a surprise, if when they get commited , that she expects the same trement she is accustom to.

If a woman, calls a man b4 she goes to work, and when she is coming home and even on her lunch break...is it a shocker that he expects to hear from her during those time frames?

11-05-2009, 04:21 PM	#51 (permalink)
Colossus Better than Ever! Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: On my way There...Yes! Posts: 16,372 Credits: 8,906	LOL@ Killa' Well, he eventually tells her what's going on.... Sheryl asked him to go with her to the abortion clinic. She slept with some dude she been messing around with. dude don't know, and will never know. He didn't keep his phone on to answer ur calls because, he's simply not good at lying and didn't want seem suspicious. So he rather cut off the phone handle the business and deal with the aftermath later. Sheryl only lied because she knew u would get suspicious of why he didn't go to work, and he was over there. When you heard him in the background, he was looking for some ingredients to make some soup for her. She was in the bed resting from the procedure, when you had called. Do you believe him? Forgive him? Lose trust? Cuss Sheryl out? What now..... __________________ I got harem full of Hoes'. Its my Mystique that's got dem tearing off my Clothes....I'm so Sincere.

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11-05-2009, 04:11 PM	#50 (permalink)
Flickin Killa! CTA VP of Local Affairs Join Date: Jan 2000 Location: Yuh Muddaz C$%& Posts: 13,279 Credits: 37,838	OK so col fcuk up my scenario but still that chick is ah high maintenance nut job!

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T-MAKAA Flopic Saver Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Brooklyn Posts: 15,511 Credits: 147,838	Y did Sheryl lie...Sheryl lie means she knows her "friend" will lie to his girl.. what a great friend Sheryl is.