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    Not your average thinker Teatre is offline
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    Talking *Sighs* not another man question but...

    Men, what does it mean if a man tells you his insecurities?

    A man that I liked confessed to me that he has a skin allergy and that he he cannot hear very well. He was rather coy about it that I fell so sorry for him. Not in a patronizing way but in a sort of "i'm here for you" way lol.

    As a woman, i'm inclined to believe that he saw me as someone special to share his insecurities with, but what say you Imix gentlemen?

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    ok, so he's being straight up and honest with you.

    What's the issue?

    Or, u just looking Co-Sign that you must be SPECIAL?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious View Post
    ok, so he's being straight up and honest with you.

    What's the issue?

    Or, u just looking Co-Sign that you must be SPECIAL?

    I would like to think that I was special. It takes a lot of courage to tell people your insecurities. Perhaps I read too much into it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teatre View Post
    I would like to think that I was special. It takes a lot of courage to tell people your insecurities. Perhaps I read too much into it.
    Ok...let me say this.

    1) Him being comfortable enough to be honest with you is a very good thing. Don't question it, enjoy it for all its worth.

    2) Number One, shud' be the norm for you. It shudnt't be anything different or exciting. It shud' be standard actions or level of interaction. So, if it wasn't the norm' for u in ur past experiences...make sure for now on it is.

    I'm done.
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    most interactions with men aren't as layered...something like a hearing problem or a skin rash might be a joke amongst bredren (at least my boys) for maybe a week but after that its nothing....we don't like put all this significance behind telling our boys some shit like that...its not that serious.

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    You were there...he feel to talk bout it, he spoke. The end....

    This is not an insight into him or your ascent onto the throne...is just a convo....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious View Post
    Ok...let me say this.

    1) Him being comfortable enough to be honest with you is a very good thing. Don't question it, enjoy it for all its worth.

    2) Number One, shud' be the norm for you. It shudnt't be anything different or exciting. It shud' be standard actions or level of interaction. So, if it wasn't the norm' for u in ur past experiences...make sure for now on it is.

    I'm done.
    and you will just hate on her for it. women with good experiences with men seem to make you itchy.

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    You are one of those women who unconsciously likes being lied to...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teatre View Post
    Men, what does it mean if a man tells you his insecurities?

    A man that I liked confessed to me that he has a skin allergy and that he he cannot hear very well. He was rather coy about it that I fell so sorry for him. Not in a patronizing way but in a sort of "i'm here for you" way lol.

    As a woman, i'm inclined to believe that he saw me as someone special to share his insecurities with, but what say you Imix gentlemen?
    Did you ask him if he breaks out around his dIc8?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Black Madonna View Post
    and you will just hate on her for it. women with good experiences with men seem to make you itchy.
    Really?

    Everything was nice and positive in here, until u posted in this thread.

    U are such a LUNATIC.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious View Post
    Really?

    Everything was nice and positive in here, until u posted in this thread.

    U are such a LUNATIC.
    *shrugs* keep trying to convince yourself that I am a lunatic. it's the only way you can get over me since when you're not being a deliberate a-hole, you just regurgitate my POV that you condemn me for having

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    Quote Originally Posted by Black Madonna View Post
    *shrugs* keep trying to convince yourself that I am a lunatic. it's the only way you can get over me since when you're not being a deliberate a-hole, you just regurgitate my POV that you condemn me for having
    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious View Post
    Really?

    Everything was nice and positive in here, until u posted in this thread.

    U are such a LUNATIC.
    you guys probably should not make a porno.. i dont see the chemistry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oneshot View Post
    you guys probably should not make a porno.. i dont see the chemistry.
    nope he'd just have a panic attack......AGAIN and performance anxiety

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teatre View Post
    Men, what does it mean if a man tells you his insecurities?

    A man that I liked confessed to me that he has a skin allergy and that he he cannot hear very well. He was rather coy about it that I fell so sorry for him. Not in a patronizing way but in a sort of "i'm here for you" way lol.

    As a woman, i'm inclined to believe that he saw me as someone special to share his insecurities with, but what say you Imix gentlemen?
    Why would skin allergies or poor hearing be an insecurity?

    I know similar info about nuff men and none of them are coy about it ... I think he might have been acting that way for a reason.

    ...but sometimes you guys need to know when it's a boy and not a man you are dealing with. Being insecure about that is ridiculous.
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