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    sebas4920
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    settling?

    so i have been the man friend of this nice girl who likes me a lot and i like her back.

    but i have some difficultuies thinking that i should continue to be her boy friend

    because

    shes not really on my level intelelctually

    and this pisses me off because its an ass hole ish hting to say

    shes from bad areas and hasnt had the opportunity

    shes bright

    but her english isnt good. and she is learning so its cool. i just know i cant duiswcuss certain things with her and ideally i guess i would want to be with someone i could

    for example

    she could read harry potter but not anton chekov

    so theres that

    and plus she isnt dark skinned

    and like

    i dunno

    sometihng about dark skinned girls

    these two reasons are really shallow right?

    i like her soul

    i like her to hang out wiht

    and i like ot make love to her

    but i told her we should maybe not have sex right now

    and i dunno

    i like her

    maybe thats all that matters

    but i cant really talk philosophy with her or discuss cheik anta diop or chaucer

    shit man i cant even discuss chaucer

    but tyou know what im saying

    am I settling?

    i dont want to like, leave her if i find someone i tihnk i like better

    i wnat her to be happy too

    so

    i dont really know what to do

    anyway the "smarter" girls dont want me anyway i dont think.


    she is smart i guess.

    i dont know im just conceited and a jerk in many ways

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    sebas4920
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    a girl i really am into physically (perfect 10 in my book)

    as well as mentally and spiritually

    gave me her number and said we could go to an upcomming jazz concert (dianne reeves and marcus roberts)

    i had sent her a bunch of pickup lines from mash comps thread so she knows i like her like htat

    and still said we could go out and gave me the digits

    so we will see what happens

    the girl this thread is about is depressed because she likes me alot and doesnt think she can be just friends with me

    i told he ri wasnt sure if we weremeant for each other and that i also liked her and that she was beautiful and i was attracted to her

    but i also told he rthere was another girl i was into as well

    and i just dont really know what to do

    i know i want to go afte rthis other girl and not the girl in this thread

    but i want the girl in htis thread to be happy

    i told her she needs to worry about being happy and following her dreams and not owrry about guys because she has been wiht like 5 guys (including me in the last 7 months and is depressed because she thinks she isnt good enough

    what would yall tell her?

    how do i handle this?

    i should pull a denzel in mo betta blues right?

    thats what i told her i might do

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    have you shared your penis with her yet?

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    Man, thats whats wrong with the world, people too ################in picky...
    too dumb, too silly, not educated enough.. Man, just have a few shots of your favorite liquor and all that stuff will seem so insignificant.

    So Have a couple of drinks and quit discriminating,
    This is been a Hellooo brooklyn public Service Announcement

    Deuces...
    HAHAHA....
    Last edited by Hellooo Brooklyn; 11-23-2008 at 08:24 PM.

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    Wow. Seems like you're getting the most action on IMIX these days.


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    Hellooo Brooklyn
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    Wait a minute...

    wasnt you the one puttin your mouth on a crackhead's pus sy and now you have all these standards....

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    Sebas it would have been nice if you realized these reservations before you sex her and made her think you care.

    I mean you wrote above that you "make love to her" and....

    I can't even bother to write what i'm thinking
    “A sharp knife never proclaims it’s sharpness to the world…but the first to fall against it becomes it’s advocate.”

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    we moved waaay too fast

    sex on first date

    i do care about her

    but im not in love with her

    i just dont think its gonna work

    plus theres a lot of drama with her being from gary indiana group homes

    like she might be a ho anyway... and she lies about stuff


    and i want to help her too



    i just want to give her a big hug and make her happy

    but i also dont think shes the one

    uuuuuh

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    dude how the hell do you come across these people?!?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    we moved waaay too fast

    sex on first date

    i do care about her

    but im not in love with her

    i just dont think its gonna work

    plus theres a lot of drama with her being from gary indiana group homes

    like she might be a ho anyway... and she lies about stuff


    and i want to help her too



    i just want to give her a big hug and make her happy

    but i also dont think shes the one

    uuuuuh
    :
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    sebas4920
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taj View Post
    :
    shes mad and upset now and thinks im a playa

    i guess i am

    this isnt who i want to be

    i wasnt cheating on her or dating other girls

    but there was someone i was trying to get to know who i tohught i wouldl ike more and now i think i was jsut being shallow and greedy!

    we jsut moved too fast and she freaked me out and i worried she wasnt the one.

    and maybe she wasnt and maybe she was

    but she was basically just like "its over , have a nice life" on the phone

    and she was like "you shouldnt play wiht peoples feelings and that was really low"

    can i give her a rose

    i mean i do care about her

    i know shes been through a lot and i want to make things better soem how

    its probably impossible right

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    shes mad and upset now and thinks im a playa

    i guess i am

    this isnt who i want to be

    i wasnt cheating on her or dating other girls

    but there was someone i was trying to get to know who i tohught i wouldl ike more and now i think i was jsut being shallow and greedy!

    we jsut moved too fast and she freaked me out and i worried she wasnt the one.

    and maybe she wasnt and maybe she was

    but she was basically just like "its over , have a nice life" on the phone

    and she was like "you shouldnt play wiht peoples feelings and that was really low"

    can i give her a rose

    i mean i do care about her

    i know shes been through a lot and i want to make things better soem how

    its probably impossible right
    when you go to give her the rose she should have her group home cronies give you a good ole stomping.

    move the fack on. She told you peace out. Go weave your wonderful fackuptales and dysfunctionality with someone else.
    “A sharp knife never proclaims it’s sharpness to the world…but the first to fall against it becomes it’s advocate.”

    You can put any face behind a mask but be careful cos someone else might be pretending. You might not be the only one with a secret -- Cassie/Gretel

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    she is right... that was low

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    sebas4920
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    but she thinks i was cheating on her and i wasnt

    and her old friend kept on talking shit about her behind her back

    i just didnt know what to think

    like i thought they were conning me sicne i helped them out once with errands and rent money

    or she was just screwing around

    but i never said anything

    and i wasnt cheating on her

    its jsut i dont think shes the oen and thats it and i know it hurts

    should i have kept dating her to make her happy?

    its not like i was unhappy with her

    i was happy with her and i liked her

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    sebas4920
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    Quote Originally Posted by curious1980 View Post
    she is right... that was low

    what was low?


    we had sex on hte first night and kept dating

    and then i felt like she wasnt the one and i made this thread and we started talking aobut it and this is what happened

    i thought that was being honest??

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