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    No Sex Before Marriage... How hard is this for you???

    Date for the wedding is set, plans are underway. Do you break up with your boyfriend if you found out he cheated on you a few times (4 or 5) during the engagement period, because of this principle you are trying to uphold?????
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    marriage is not everything for life .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doctor's Daughter View Post
    Date for the wedding is set, plans are underway. Do you break up with your boyfriend if you found out he cheated on you a few times (4 or 5) during the engagement period, because of this principle you are trying to uphold?????
    Once is perhaps plausible but a few times? Not only would I break up with him, I will send him to a sex clinic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doctor's Daughter View Post
    Date for the wedding is set, plans are underway. Do you break up with your boyfriend if you found out he cheated on you a few times (4 or 5) during the engagement period, because of this principle you are trying to uphold?????
    4 or 5 times? Jeeze... that marriage aint gonna a pretty one... she need to move on.
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    I think realistic expectations is important in any relationship.

    If you are with a man, and refraining from sex until marriage, and have not entertained the fact that it is possible he at some point sought sexual gratification elsewhere ... you are already entering the situation with unrealistic expectations. You are also not being realistic if you think those sexual gratifications were meaningful.

    Nothing is wrong with being abstinent but people need to have a realisitic conversation about what will be involved and what the expectations are.
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