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    Men and ladies too, what do you think about sex and money?

    I came across this letter in an advice column. Read and express your views.

    Dear Snooky,

    I could use your opinion on a topic that my
    girlfriends and I have been debating for quite a
    while. Do you think it is wrong to expect the man
    you're dating to provide financial assistance every
    now and then? I work a full time job and go to school
    full time and I am having a really hard time trying to
    make ends meet. A couple of men I have dated in the
    past had problems with "looking out" for me when I
    needed help. These are the same men I have showed
    much generosity to, not financially, but in other
    areas. I feel like if I show them I am there for them
    they should not have a problem showing me the same.
    Some men kill me. They try to make me feel like I'm
    out-of-order asking for money, but they don't think
    pu$$y right away. Some men have told me they don't like it
    when a woman asks for help. They would prefer to
    offer, but I might need help before they decide to
    offer. Now don't get me wrong, I am interested in
    having a relationship, and I don't dismiss a man
    because he wonít help, but I think thatís very
    selfish. What's your opinion? Do you think I'm
    wrong?

    Miss No-Romance-Without Finance

    Dear Miss No-Romance-Without Finance:

    Let Olí Snooky give you a lesson in Supply Side
    Economics. Nearly everything in this country is
    priced too high. Pu$$Y is not one of them. Pu$$y is
    not at a premium in this market. The key components
    here are price, demand and supply. This yields the
    question: What is the value of pu$$Y? Letís take a
    quick look:

    Price: Pu$$Y is FREE!

    Demand: Demand is not high for most men. There is no
    panic in the streets. I donít care how good you think
    your stuff is, somebody else has stuff that is just as
    good or better.

    Supply: There is so much pu$$Y available that some
    women have established a bulk rate where they are
    giving it out to more than one man at the same time.
    Some women are even giving it to other women to reduce
    the stockpile. You can even order it online!

    I have always held the position that you never pay for
    pu$$y, never, ever! You donít have to. Any healthy
    and able-bodied man who feels that he has to pay to
    get "some" is a loser. Now if he wants to pay or help
    out, thatís on him. I have run across several women
    who were raised to believe that a man, especially a
    married man, should have to pay for pu$$y. Ladies, if
    you were raised that way, then your mama, grandma and
    aunts gave you some bad advice. This flawed logic
    makes you less likely to improve your circumstances.
    You're actually getting lulled into a false sense of
    security that has you ďgiving it upĒ to ďget over.Ē
    Bad move sista, bad move. Empower yourself to do
    better.

    When you enter into a relationship, make the
    expectations clear. If you want a man to help you out
    financially because you put out, tell him thatís how
    you roll. Donít wait until things get tight and
    assume that he will understand. If you pulled that
    crap on me, you would get your feelings hurt. Because
    of my vast experience, I can spot that approach early
    on. My internal Gold digger alarm begins to ring.

    Iím not saying that youíre a gold digger but I think
    you are wrong to expect that a man should pay your
    bills because you give him some pu$$y.

    At some point in life many of us may find ourselves in
    a situation where we need financial help. However, as
    I read your letter, I got a very clear sense that you
    may not be doing all that you can do to improve your
    situation, in part, because you can always find some
    guy to bail you out if you throw him a little "nooky."


    Snooky
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    From my personal perspective and experience, I say it a man responsibility to look out for his woman's needs, financially, emotionally and lly

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    Dat is funnnnnny no rass!!

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    That's funny I was in my friends jeep and he had his GOS in the front they thought i was sleeping and he asked her for some nookie and she said if he has any money!

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    This thread mekkin me lol arready!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jahpikne
    That's funny I was in my friends jeep and he had his GOS in the front they thought i was sleeping and he asked her for some nookie and she said if he has any money!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jahpikne
    That's funny I was in my friends jeep and he had his GOS in the front they thought i was sleeping and he asked her for some nookie and she said if he has any money!


    when that happens time to get a new GOS

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jahpikne
    That's funny I was in my friends jeep and he had his GOS in the front they thought i was sleeping and he asked her for some nookie and she said if he has any money!
    maybe i should try that

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