my uncle been married for hu'much years now.(about 10 yrs) He live in BK and his wife live in Harlem and that's how it was from before they were married. They are not separated. They just have maintained the same living arrangements they did when they were boyfriend and girlfriend. oh and they have a child together.

but could u do it

I could understand if they are often on business trips, but I see no reason to be married and live in different houses if they want to spend the rest of their lives together,unless they're swingers.

I could understand if they are often on business trips, but I see no reason to be married and live in different houses if they want to spend the rest of their lives together,unless they're swingers.

what does swinging have to do with anything? you cant swing if you live in separate houses. those kinds of living arrangements have nothing to do with sex and maybe you need to learn to think beyond your crotch.those kinds of arrangements most times have to do with convenience. you dont have to be a full time spouse and live together 24/7. you dont have to deal with certain headaches like trying to blend families and other day to day stuff. you get the benefits but not the headache

If they are not separated then I don't see why both spouses are living in different quarters.

Swingers would obviously not want to bring their other partner in the same space as their husband/wife right?!

What kind nonsense shit are you saying I am thinking with my crotch... if you are having problems with your spouse you could live in different rooms of the same residence.

But if you are married and live in a different residence yet you are in the same town/city you are setting yourself up for failure, you should be able work things out with your partner then and there in the same space.
It also becomes a problem if you both have kids.


Now I can understand a couple having different spaces in the house or if their job requires them to be out of town a lot.

who said anything about having problems? do you know what a swinger is? if you keep the outside person separate from your s/o... you're a cheater not a swinger. to swing, you must INCLUDE your s/o. I already gave an example where it's more a matter of convenience. it's not about having problems. my unlce and his wife get along fine and he is COMPLETELY active in his daughters life, he just doesnt live there. they maintain the same living arrangement prior to marriage for about 10yrs if not more. you're thinking with your crotch because the first thing you draw for is swinging. marriages go beyond that.

NBR..I’m not sure you have an understanding of the swinging lifestyle. What you’re talking about is a non-monogamous lifestyle where partners may bring in other people to be with separately.