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    A Man's Decision to Stay When a Woman Cheats

    Fellas, has a woman ever cheated on you? If yes, did you stay with her and why? If no, why not?

    I was having a conversation with a friend whose girl recently cheated and he said they're trying to work it out. I asked had he ever done anything like that to her and he confirmed that he had a couple years ago. I asked if he hadn't done his dirt would he still be with her now. He said that he's almost certain that he wouldn't. He also told me about a case where a girl cheated on his friend but the friend stayed w/ her b/c he'd done his dirt in the past as well.

    What I'm really interested in hearing is whether having done your dirt in the past strongly affects your decision to stay with a woman that cheats?

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    lol....

    I don't think you will get the answers you are seeking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious View Post
    lol....

    I don't think you will get the answers you are seeking.
    so basically you don't think anyone will respond?

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    Quote Originally Posted by agroDOLCE View Post
    so basically you don't think anyone will respond?
    you have a nice tred
    simply put people are dishonest
    for example most will say quietly that they dont trust anyone and stats say women are cheating on par with men blah blah blah

    meaning its in your interest to think/consider/know your partner is cheating

    or at least those with certain mentalities

    love is ded in certain cultures or is a fairytale

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    Never been with someone who cheated on me (unless they never told me) so i can't answer your question from experience. BUT I know for sure woman who decides to get D_ick Down by another man has made it clear the relationship is not worth saving...so i won't waste time

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    Quote Originally Posted by agroDOLCE View Post
    Fellas, has a woman ever cheated on you? If yes, did you stay with her and why? If no, why not?

    I was having a conversation with a friend whose girl recently cheated and he said they're trying to work it out. I asked had he ever done anything like that to her and he confirmed that he had a couple years ago. I asked if he hadn't done his dirt would he still be with her now. He said that he's almost certain that he wouldn't. He also told me about a case where a girl cheated on his friend but the friend stayed w/ her b/c he'd done his dirt in the past as well.

    What I'm really interested in hearing is whether having done your dirt in the past strongly affects your decision to stay with a woman that cheats?
    Men who stay knowing that they cheated in the past probably felt their actions lead to hear cheating. The actions could be the cheating, as well as the times they have neglected her, etc.. I will say that in most cases the man wont be able to deal with the fact she cheated in the long run. She will remind him of the other girls he has bedded who also had a man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
    Men who stay knowing that they cheated in the past probably feel their actions lead to hear cheating. The actions could be the cheating as well as the times they have neglected her, etc.. I will say that in most cases the man wont be able to deal with the fact she cheated in the long run. She will remind him of the other girls he has bedded who also had a man.
    what's interesting in my friend's case is that he came off as though she should've never done that to him based on the fact that he'd done his dirt a couple of years ago. that and the fact that he felt he was treating her right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by agroDOLCE View Post
    what's interesting in my friend's case is that he came off as though she should've never done that to him based on the fact that he'd done his dirt a couple of years ago. that and the fact that he felt he was treating her right.
    oh so my brillyant comment nuh mean shit?
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    Quote Originally Posted by agroDOLCE View Post
    what's interesting in my friend's case is that he came off as though she should've never done that to him based on the fact that he'd done his dirt a couple of years ago. that and the fact that he felt he was treating her right.
    He is correct. She shouldnt have. She has little excuse, if she couldnt handle him cheating or treatment she should have left. Tell him to smack her

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    Quote Originally Posted by agroDOLCE View Post
    so basically you don't think anyone will respond?

    PRETTY MUCH....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jigga Boozy View Post
    you have a nice tred
    simply put people are dishonest
    for example most will say quietly that they dont trust anyone and stats say women are cheating on par with men blah blah blah

    meaning its in your interest to think/consider/know your partner is cheating

    or at least those with certain mentalities

    love is ded in certain cultures or is a fairytale
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    Quote Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
    He is correct. She shouldnt have. She has little excuse, if she couldnt handle him cheating or treatment she should have left. Tell him to smack her

    Damn, de Baker send that one Hot & Direct.......lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
    He is correct. She shouldnt have. She has little excuse, if she couldnt handle him cheating or treatment she should have left. Tell him to smack her
    Real talk...if u aint ready to forgive then move on to another person

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    Quote Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
    Men who stay knowing that they cheated in the past probably feel their actions lead to hear cheating. The actions could be the cheating as well as the times they have neglected her, etc...

    Interesting...and this is probably dead on in some instances - not all, because lawd knows some chicks just loose
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    Did she know he'd stepped out on her in the past?


    Anyway, me personally I've never been cheated on (that I know of) in an adult relationship so I dunno what goes through peoples head when it happens, but I don't think I could stay with a girl that cheated on me, even if I'd done it first. If he'd slept around on her and she knew about it and chose to stay (especially if he's done right by her ever since), she forgave him and agreed to put it in the past, so if she's using his cheating as a justification for her actions she just should have admitted that she wasn't over it and went her own way.

    Honestly, from what I seen once a woman cheats it's usually because she don't love you the same way she used to and doesn't give a fXck anymore, so I don't see those circumstances as worth saving. On the other hand, some women are just whores who you shouldn't have wifed in the first place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jigga Boozy View Post
    oh so my brillyant comment nuh mean shit?
    alrite gwaan yuh soon find furball in a yuh troat
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    i didn't say that. i was actually going to comment and say, well that's it-- love is sometimes reduced to just a "feeling." i've said that before though so...

    Quote Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
    He is correct. She shouldnt have. She has little excuse, if she couldnt handle him cheating or treatment she should have left. Tell him to smack her
    agreed; however, i think that sometimes being in a situation allows you to learn what you can and can't deal with. i mentioned to him that maybe she hadn't really gotten over him doing his dirt and she wanted to get back at him. he said too much time had elapsed for that to be the reason. you never know w/ some ppl though. IMO it was either that or she just started liking someone else...since they say that women mostly cheat for emotional reasons.

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