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    Ladies would you marry a man 30 yrs older

    than you?I am 29 and my common law partner will be 59 this year,we were just friends but got closer overtime.He treats me good....cooks,cleans,pays the rent and bills and helped me get my papers.He now wants to get married and have a kid,i have no kids he has 3 (all grownup) should i get married and have a kid and have him buy a house and make sure we will be taken care of financially or should i stay until i meet a younger man (I haven't met any who i'm interested in).Should i leave what i've seen for what i haven't seen?
    I am confused,i love him but i am worried about the age difference,he looks good now but who knows how wrinkly he will be in the next 10 yrs.What would you do?

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    Hmmm do wey uh feel. We are strangers who will have our opions and do not know that happiness that this man brings to your life, so ultimately it is YOUR choice.
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    all the names to come up with and "sweetpumpum" get de bligh?




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    rub he skin wit sweetpumpum juice every nite b4 bed and he wont wrinkle but wen ur stop it go set in eh...look wat happen to swallow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Garrison View Post
    rub he skin wit sweetpumpum juice every nite b4 bed and he wont wrinkle but wen ur stop it go set in eh...look wat happen to swallow.
    What happen to Swallow?

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    Quote Originally Posted by swallow View Post
    What happen to Swallow?
    eh?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Garrison View Post
    eh?
    Wha happen to you, yuh ah fall pon the wayside now.

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    Sweetpumpum...also, if the man's age is bothering you, u should just leave him alone because it will ALWAYS be a problem. I have learned my lesson dont feel bad to llow somebody when EVERYTHING dont add up to YOUR liking. So what if they nice? so what if they do this and that....the longer yuh leave it to prolong yuh will be deemed a bigger liar when u do leave...because u will...he is only getting older...doh lower yuh standards, make YOU happy...he has lived his life, live urs
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    so let me get this straight.. you stayed with him all throughout him getting you your papers and all this other stuff, him treating you well but you wondering if you should stay with him UNTIL a younger man comes along or just go ahead and marry him now and be happy with him?

    doesn't sound like you LOVE this individual, sounds like you like him and care for him very much but if you don't truly llove him then do a little catch-and-release and let him find a woman who really loves him... you seem very caught up on age.. when in reality.. you may start to look older and how would you feel if he start looking towards getting a younger replacement for you cos he was worried that gravity will do a piledriver on your womanly assets?? jus sayin..
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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetpumpum View Post
    than you?I am 29 and my common law partner will be 59 this year,we were just friends but got closer overtime.He treats me good....cooks,cleans,pays the rent and bills and helped me get my papers.He now wants to get married and have a kid,i have no kids he has 3 (all grownup) should i get married and have a kid and have him buy a house and make sure we will be taken care of financially or should i stay until i meet a younger man (I haven't met any who i'm interested in).Should i leave what i've seen for what i haven't seen?
    I am confused,i love him but i am worried about the age difference,he looks good now but who knows how wrinkly he will be in the next 10 yrs.What would you do?
    you love him , so that it doesn't matter . when you love him , you think his age at first ? I guess you forget his age feeling you love him.

    Think about the his age again when you two get that older. and just feel what you exactly want to do just now.


    for me , that age is not fine . but you are not me .

    Do just you want to do. and be happy with him

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    Quote Originally Posted by Garrison View Post
    rub he skin wit sweetpumpum juice every nite b4 bed and he wont wrinkle but wen ur stop it go set in eh...look wat happen to swallow.
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    This thread is packed with cowards.

    SPP go read my input about your biological age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    so let me get this straight.. you stayed with him all throughout him getting you your papers and all this other stuff, him treating you well but you wondering if you should stay with him UNTIL a younger man comes along or just go ahead and marry him now and be happy with him?

    doesn't sound like you LOVE this individual, sounds like you like him and care for him very much but if you don't truly llove him then do a little catch-and-release and let him find a woman who really loves him... you seem very caught up on age.. when in reality.. you may start to look older and how would you feel if he start looking towards getting a younger replacement for you cos he was worried that gravity will do a piledriver on your womanly assets?? jus sayin..
    Ok i read it over cause I thought I was reading it wrong... well she gettin ting now.. wuh she goh leave him now "just because".
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    Quote Originally Posted by RenzePenze View Post
    Ok i read it over cause I thought I was reading it wrong... well she gettin ting now.. wuh she goh leave him now "just because".
    Did yall hearsay she don't have any chirren.

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