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    Ladies: Take Heed

    1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

    2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

    3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

    4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

    5. Slower is better.

    6. Never live your life for a man.

    7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

    8. Don't settle for less than what God has for you

    9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

    10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

    11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

    12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

    13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

    14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

    15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

    16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

    17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or a better job.

    18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less

    1 9. Never let a man define who you are.

    20. Never borrow someone else's man.

    21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

    22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

    23. All men are NOT dogs.

    24. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.

    25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

    26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

    27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

    28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

    29. Never co-sign for a man.

    30. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

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    Temptress Taina's Avatar Taina is offline
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    wise words. this should be posted up on build-boards EVERYWHERE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by js4short
    23. All men are NOT dogs.


    Yuh right......some are jackazz's

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinikiz
    Yuh right......some are jackazz's too


    yuh know you wrong fuh that... but it still funny

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    good post :)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taina
    wise words. this should be posted up on build-boards EVERYWHERE.
    Agree
    "Create the highest, grandest vision possible for your life, because you become what you believe." - Oprah Winfrey

    "If you keep believing in yourself and seek enthusiasm inside your soul, things will get simpler, more spontaneous." ~Paulo Coelho

    "I find your lack of faith disturbing" - Darth Vader

    Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit
    the floor each morning the devil says:
    "Oh Crap, She's up!"

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    Wuck up ya waist gyal SexyBajanGyal's Avatar SexyBajanGyal is offline
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    Great Message!!

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    Preach it girl!

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    Island Soul's PD zenzele1's Avatar zenzele1 is offline
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    One of my girlfiends just sent this to me in an email. Very nice.

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    very nice post...so often we forget these things when it comes to and pay the price for it

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    Happiness Consultant Jahpikne's Avatar Jahpikne is offline
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    What's up with all of this propaganda? Not all men are like that ! Hell is this true or false test

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    This is going up in the inspirational section of my room.
    Great stuff!!!

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    Dr. Taina's patient! 1stclass yute's Avatar 1stclass yute is offline
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    fuh #23!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinikiz
    Yuh right......some are jackazz's

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jahpikne
    What's up with all of this propaganda? Not all men are like that ! Hell is this true or false test

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    this is a typical depiction of the sayin that a quilty conscience needs no accusers... who ever say n e thing bout men being anyway...boy relax yuh self eh

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