View Poll Results: Do You Mind Paying On A Date

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  • Hell Yes, It's the mans right to pay.

    1 7.69%
  • No, I usually offer to pay.

    3 23.08%
  • Not really, sometimes I'd split the bill.

    8 61.54%
  • What !? Excuse myself to the bathroom, and jump out the window.

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Thread: Ladies' Do You Mind Paying On A Date?

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    领导失 PhuCk Yu MoN's Avatar PhuCk Yu MoN is offline
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    Ladies' Do You Mind Paying On A Date?

    I was speaking to a friend and we were on the subject of dates; as it came across on a tv special. The man was like "Why don't women offer to pay for meals blah blah" and I said to my friend "That's you" and she said "Yup, I am not paying when I go out with a man", I told her, I understand if it's a night out and he's invited you but what if it's like a mutual agreement to go out. "She said nope, he's the man he must pay, even if I invite him" I told her she's stupid, but then I realized she isn't the only female who thinks like that there's tons of them and that's a problem.

    I always offer to pay whenever I go out, one time it was a back and forth of "Ill pay no I'll pay" that we ended up splitting the bill... I even remember once when the waiter brought the check to our table. He was going to hand it to my male friend, but when I told him to give it to me. He had a look on his face...... IDK, where do you stand ladies?



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    SocaLuvinYardieGyal Caribsun's Avatar Caribsun is offline
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    If I have to pay, it ain't a date...we're just merely hanging out...like I do with my girlfriends...

    If we're going out after a while...and I'm in the mood, I'll pick up the check and let that be that. Most guys I've dated believe that they should pay...and I don't argue with them about it...

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    Aint nothing wrong with footing the bill once in a while, esp. if you're in a relationship with the guy. My bf and I alternate sometimes, although most times he pays but I don't see anything wrong with it.

    But if a guy asks me out on a date and expects me to pay the bill, he sure as hell aint seeing me again to go nowhere.
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Caribsun View Post
    If I have to pay, it ain't a date...we're just merely hanging out...like I do with my girlfriends...

    If we're going out after a while...and I'm in the mood, I'll pick up the check and let that be that. Most guys I've dated believe that they should pay...and I don't argue with them about it. yes that is potential source for argument so i just leave it alone..
    right it depends on the relationship

    friends chillin I have no problem splittin it or paying entirely (if i feel like it)

    A Date he pays.....i only offer to pay if I'm not romantically interested and dont want to feel obligated towards them or want them to get the wrong idea
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    If a woman can't pick up the tab sometimes she is cheap

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    If I invite a lady on a date I'm paying but if she invites me on a date she better be paying else I aint giving it up

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    Quote Originally Posted by Caribsun View Post
    If I have to pay, it ain't a date...we're just merely hanging out...like I do with my girlfriends...

    If we're going out after a while...and I'm in the mood, I'll pick up the check and let that be that. Most guys I've dated believe that they should pay...and I don't argue with them about it...
    Your location must be really true then.

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    If I'm paying, his boxers are coming off.
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    Long Live the Queen!

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    Plenty woman will pay. Woman come and wan tek me out all de time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jahpikne View Post
    If I invite a lady on a date I'm paying but if she invites me on a date she better be paying else I aint giving it up
    Lol one thing I learnt is to always walk with money just incase they pull a fast one

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    Quote Originally Posted by chinky eyes View Post
    If I'm paying, his boxers are coming off.
    I like your outlook

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    领导失 PhuCk Yu MoN's Avatar PhuCk Yu MoN is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by chinky eyes View Post
    If I'm paying, his boxers are coming off.
    straight and forward eh? ....

    Quote Originally Posted by DesmondBuffingtonVII View Post
    Plenty woman will pay. Woman come and wan tek me out all de time.
    oh really....

    Quote Originally Posted by No Fixed Address View Post
    I like your outlook
    hear you nah ....

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    Quote Originally Posted by chinky eyes View Post
    If I'm paying, his boxers are coming off.
    and you would have earned it if it's wack no refunds because we don't get any
    Quote Originally Posted by No Fixed Address View Post
    Lol one thing I learnt is to always walk with money just incase they pull a fast one
    I've seen it done so many times they happen to have left thier purse

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    DEAD @ 4th choice in poll......

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    Well if a guy invites me out then I expect him to pay. If it's a mutual agreement to go out, then I have no qualms paying for myself. There have been a few (RARE) occasions when I have footed the entire bill, but that was because he was broke at the time... come to think of it he always seemed to be conviniently broke when we made plans to go out, but his weed supply was always fully stocked ... but anyhoo, luckily for me I mostly date guys who think it's the man's duty to pay for stuff... but I'm not against going dutch from time to time.

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