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    Just Curious...Ladies and Gents

    Do you naturally discuss your income with your mate/significant other?
    And...if you don't under what circumstance do you feel it would be necessary and why?

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    Sugar Aloes
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    no way

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    not juss no...but hellll no!!!

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    hey i disagree i tell him how much i make he tells me how much he makes.

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    don't listen to them.............

    Every situation is different if you are working on planning to be together in the long run then I don't see the issue..........

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    i agree SSS its called trust

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    Sugar Aloes
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    ????? what good is it doing to you knowing how much one make its still not yours..:p :p

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    Originally posted by SSS
    don't listen to them.............

    Every situation is different if you are working on planning to be together in the long run then I don't see the issue..........
    Yes, if it is a long term relationship, then I have no problem discussing my salary. Just make sure that you're making more than me.

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    Yuh Mad..

    Hell nooo! Unless its your spouse

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    Re: Just Curious...Ladies and Gents

    Originally posted by luvpunch
    Do you naturally discuss your income with your mate/significant other?
    And...if you don't under what circumstance do you feel it would be necessary and why?
    I have nothing to hide... we have joint ventures where we pool our money together.. a joint acount will handle that ... and my personal money whisch I would consider all income outside of household / joint resposibilities is mines... how I invest or spend that is my concern.. but i dont hide how much ah make...

    that is only for a spouse..

    if it is a gyal yuh juss messing with ... it is none of her concern ...
    Last edited by 0; 03-26-2003 at 12:44 PM.

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    Sugar Aloes
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    Re: Re: Just Curious...Ladies and Gents

    Originally posted by hotpepasauce
    I have nothing to hide... we have joint ventures where we pool our money together.. a joint acount will handle that ... and my personal money whisch I would consider all income outside of household / joint resposibilities is mines... how I invest or spend that is my concern.. but i dont hide how much ah make...
    :p :p :p :p happy happy yo fuh you buddy

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    D'Only1
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    When my ex-husband and I were dating, he found out how much I made and homeboy ain't talk to me for a week. Talk bout attitude. And allyuh say woman does get vex for stupidness.

    So now I keep it my self . I killmyself. What pay do I get.

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    Originally posted by D'Only1
    When my ex-husband and I were dating, he found out how much I made and homeboy ain't talk to me for a week. Talk bout attitude. And allyuh say woman does get vex for stupidness.

    So now I keep it my self . I killmyself. What pay do I get.
    please ah would love for a woman to make more than me... stueps...

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    luvpunch
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    I agree...every situation is different...However I DON"T disclose such information....I think if we intend on moving on together the most I might comply to is contributing a specific amount of money to "us" and whatever it is we're venturing together.....I could only imagine discussing such delicate matters prematurely may:

    1- Offer an Inferiority/Superiority complex
    2- Display TOO MUCH INFO at one time for something that might turn out to be nothing anyway.
    3- Reveal selfishness someway or another.

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    Originally posted by luvpunch
    I agree...every situation is different...However I DON"T disclose such information....I think if we intend on moving on together the most I might comply to is contributing a specific amount of money to "us" and whatever it is we're venturing together.....I could only imagine discussing such delicate matters prematurely may:

    1- Offer an Inferiority/Superiority complex
    2- Display TOO MUCH INFO at one time for something that might turn out to be nothing anyway.
    3- Reveal selfishness someway or another.

    i agree

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