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    sweeter than honey arimagal72's Avatar arimagal72 is offline
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    Unhappy I need advise................

    .......... tell me if i was wrong?

    I seeing this fella right......... he at my house he was in the shower I was on MSN talking to ah friend, so when he pass meh he read the screen when my friend happen to type " i love you" he ask me who it was i told him is just ah friend.

    Which is the truth!

    Anyway he want to know why ah man telling me he love me if we eh have no thing going on....... I try to explain to him that is how me and all my peeps deal with each other, is just an friendship love nothing more.

    Now the person i was on msn with lives in Indiana and I am in NY how can I be cheating on him with someone so far away............

    He won't drop it, and it is aggravating me to the point where we arguing everyday since that happened. What should i do? what would u all do in that case?

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    I'm 1 Hellified Chick!!!! Princess's Avatar Princess is offline
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    can we say.............INSECURITY??? If u're being straight up with him, what's his gripe? See I doan have patience for this type of thing!!!! If u tried to hide the "I love you" when ur friend had typed it... he may have had some sorta valid arguement......but I think he's juss on some total control sh!t.......

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    sweeter than honey arimagal72's Avatar arimagal72 is offline
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    Originally posted by Princess
    can we say.............INSECURITY??? If u're being straight up with him, what's his gripe? See I doan have patience for this type of thing!!!! If u tried to hide the "I love you" when ur friend had typed it... he may have had some sorta valid arguement......but I think he's juss on some total control sh!t.......
    That is what i tell him but he say i should not be getting mad because i was the one who offended him.........

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    9 inches all de time trinieyes2002 is offline
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    frist he have no business reading your convo, second love is a four letter word people love in diffrent ways their must be trust in the relationship, i will tell him let it go, what is he guilty about.

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    I'm 1 Hellified Chick!!!! Princess's Avatar Princess is offline
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    Originally posted by arimagal72
    That is what i tell him but he say i should not be getting mad because i was the one who offended him.........
    control freak......(am sorry to have to tell u!!!)

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    tell he go and fack he self and go get some plastic rasshole surgery until he self esteem increases to the point where he can actually call himself a man

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    Originally posted by Princess
    can we say.............INSECURITY??? If u're being straight up with him, what's his gripe? See I doan have patience for this type of thing!!!! If u tried to hide the "I love you" when ur friend had typed it... he may have had some sorta valid arguement......but I think he's juss on some total control sh!t.......

    I agree with u Princess he has real low self -esteem. Tell him to go check that cause u need a man that has no insecurities!!!!

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    To be honest usually that is not a good sign either. Meaning he has some guilt of his own. Maybe something he is not telling and now he is trying to project it on you..



    Either way its not a good look..

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    Hear what you explained to him what the situation was right? Okay if he continues to keep bringing it up tell him to "kiss your a$$" I have no patience for insecurity issues : :

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    sweeter than honey arimagal72's Avatar arimagal72 is offline
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    thank ppl, That is how i feel but just wanted to know if i was wrong for feeling that way............... I not one to cheat on the man i with that is not my sceen.........

    Thank and much love.............

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    Originally posted by PhatJamz kiDD
    To be honest usually that is not a good sign either. Meaning he has some guilt of his own. Maybe something he is not telling and now he is trying to project it on you..



    Either way its not a good look..
    That's what i thought of too...
    The saint and the sinner are just exchanging notes. Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

    The matador wins by avoiding the bull not colliding with him!

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    Dis Girl is POISON! SweetPea's Avatar SweetPea is offline
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    i agree wid all of wunna... great goin guys....:cool2

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    sweeter than honey arimagal72's Avatar arimagal72 is offline
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    thanks again all who posted

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    Red face hey sweetheart..................

    he is playing games with your mind.......it's an old trick that guys
    use to justify cheating!!!!!!

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