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    Folks.. question.. really serious question

    If you married to somebody and their mother is ailing sick practically on chemo and dialysis.. and even though them and their mother didnt really have the best of relationships... would you dictate that they "leave her to die because of her bad choices"????

    if it was your mother, would you see that she is being taken care of by your HIGHLY RESENTFUL sibling? I mean things like get food, have baths, get in the bed etc...things the sibling isnt really concerned with doing or allowing OTHERS (nurses, friend, fam ) to help or attend to the mother..as in if family members have a key to go and feed them. your sibling takes away the key... a bedridden woman..

    like i am.. just.. smh... smmfh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    If you married to somebody and their mother is ailing sick practically on chemo and dialysis.. and even though them and their mother didnt really have the best of relationships... would you dictate that they "leave her to die because of her bad choices"????

    if it was your mother, would you see that she is being taken care of by your HIGHLY RESENTFUL sibling? I mean things like get food, have baths, get in the bed etc...things the sibling isnt really concerned with doing or allowing OTHERS (nurses, friend, fam ) to help or attend to the mother..as in if family members have a key to go and feed them. your sibling takes away the key... a bedridden woman..

    like i am.. just.. smh... smmfh.

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    this has nothing to do with america as this situation isnt taking place in America.. but the DIL is american.. so hmm you might be right.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    this has nothing to do with america as this situation isnt taking place in America.. but the DIL is american.. so hmm you might be right.

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    okay the nationalities of the participants is not the issue.. the issue is would you allow your sick parent to be deprived of care, regardless of the relationship that you and that parent have.. and also would you allow your spouse to push you to be negligent and turn your back on the situation..
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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    okay the nationalities of the participants is not the issue.. the issue is would you allow your sick parent to be deprived of care, regardless of the relationship that you and that parent have.. and also would you allow your spouse to push you to be negligent and turn your back on the situation..
    i know of people who were wronged by their parents, they wont visit or talk to their parents, so i this happening easily.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    okay the nationalities of the participants is not the issue.. the issue is would you allow your sick parent to be deprived of care, regardless of the relationship that you and that parent have.. and also would you allow your spouse to push you to be negligent and turn your back on the situation..
    In a word.... NO! thats my Mother/Father regardless of situation so i make that decison not my sig other.....
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    i totally agree pennywhine.. my mother and i could not talk for years and if she's sick then she will be taken care of, regardless.. and your spouse dictating your pace is a no no..
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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    okay the nationalities of the participants is not the issue.. the issue is would you allow your sick parent to be deprived of care, regardless of the relationship that you and that parent have.. and also would you allow your spouse to push you to be negligent and turn your back on the situation..
    Regardless of the relationship, I would be take care of my parents.
    The enemy of my enemy is my friend- Arabic proverb

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missmayling View Post
    Regardless of the relationship, I would be take care of my parents.

    u looking inheritance?

    lol.
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    what inheritance have to do with anything

    why yuh doh answer de question colo!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    what inheritance have to do with anything

    why yuh doh answer de question colo!

    it was a specific question....lol


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    i honestly was a little suprised by the reaction from the wife about the situation.. i was like damn.. its like that? this isnt even your fight!! lol.. and if somebody aint thinkin bout their parent's welfare.. then i'm damn sure not puttin myself out there with u lol
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    i would take care of my parents regardless and would encourage a spouse to do the same.

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    I will not encourage no one not take care of their parents... cause I will take care of my parent even if that means putting them in a home... even if we had a falln out I wanted nothing to do with them...

    if you encouraging your bf/gf, husband or wife not to take care of their parents, what will you do when they are incapable of helping themselves for reason and there's an intense falling out...

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