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    Do you think he is right for trying to save a damsel in distress?

    A family friend met a woman in St Lucia with a girl, the woman's boyfriend is beating-up on her and he now feels he has to rescue her from him by flying her down to the UK and starting a relationship with her. He is now going to use all his savings and is even asking people for money to help pay for the £1900 flight for the them to come a join him.

    Do you think he is doing the right thing?

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    he's doing a good deed...and good deeds are allways the right thing to do. Kindess has no value/price.
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    Gotta pick and choose who you save... I am all for helpin people in that situation or whatever, but if she couldnt figure out how to get herself AND HER DAUGHTER out that situation by herself, then i would bet you anything thats his efforts will be in vain...

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    Quote Originally Posted by vincyempress View Post
    he's doing a good deed...and good deeds are allways the right thing to do. Kindess has no value/price.
    Yes I think it is sweet that he wants to but he doesn't know her very well. He is a lovely man but he is socially he comes off as weird, I just don't think it is that easy, he is someone who women constantly step on so I can't help think this is going to be another case. I'm not saying she is making it up but if she finds she doesn't like him when she gets to England she will probably forget all he has done for her and move on
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    Quote Originally Posted by ssoj4eva View Post
    A family friend met a woman in St Lucia with a girl, the woman's boyfriend is beating-up on her and he now feels he has to rescue her from him by flying her down to the UK and starting a relationship with her. He is now going to use all his savings and is even asking people for money to help pay for the £1900 flight for the them to come a join him.

    Do you think he is doing the right thing?
    Wait we need more info did he beat it when he was down there?
    Did she inform him of the abuse when they were in a bedroom enviroment?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babaloo BadBoy View Post
    Gotta pick and choose who you save... I am all for helpin people in that situation or whatever, but if she couldnt figure out how to get herself AND HER DAUGHTER out that situation by herself, then i would bet you anything thats his efforts will be in vain...
    o m g! i beg to differ...the woman clearly has NO self-esteem....she is allowing this to happen to her child and probably her (dont understand the original post clearly) Her not being able to get out of the situation maybe her not having anything/anyone else to stand on. The man helping her maybe her only way out...plus come on the west indiaes?? nuff woman does tek blows out dey...this could be a good thing...the thing that i don't agree with is him wanting a relationship with her as soon as she comes up...she'll be scarred and inlove still...
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    setting himself up for god knows what.....how long he know this woman?
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    He was interested in her whilst he was there but I don't know whether it went any further than that. I think he may have witnessed the abuse he said that the man attacked her in public in broad daylight.

    The man is beating the woman mainly but sometimes he turns on the daughter too he really doesn't care about them
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    He met her in January but he has just come out of a relationship and wants to dive into this

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    Quote Originally Posted by vincyempress View Post
    o m g! i beg to differ...the woman clearly has NO self-esteem....she is allowing this to happen to her child and probably her (dont understand the original post clearly) Her not being able to get out of the situation maybe her not having anything/anyone else to stand on. The man helping her maybe her only way out...plus come on the west indiaes?? nuff woman does tek blows out dey...this could be a good thing...the thing that i don't agree with is him wanting a relationship with her as soon as she comes up...she'll be scarred and inlove still...

    The woman having no self esteem is exactly my point... I guarantee you she still love him, and she gonna end up going back to him or she not going leave him at all... And the dude who wears a heart on his sleeve is on his way to being the sucker in the whole situation.. someone need to save his ass... if he gotta beg and borrow to get the money obviously he aint got the finances to pull this off... and if she does go ah foreign to meet up with him, it aint gonna work between him and her, i guarntee you.. someone need to save that dude from being a sucker

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picong View Post
    setting himself up for god knows what.....how long he know this woman?
    I agree.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chinky eyes View Post
    I agree.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ssoj4eva View Post
    He was interested in her whilst he was there but I don't know whether it went any further than that. I think he may have witnessed the abuse he said that the man attacked her in public in broad daylight.

    The man is beating the woman mainly but sometimes he turns on the daughter too he really doesn't care about them
    If I see my baby moma on the street with some dude, you can bet somebody getting licks in public.

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    Hopefully she isnt a woman who feels akward when this new man doesnt hit her..

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    Quote Originally Posted by vincyempress View Post
    o m g! i beg to differ...the woman clearly has NO self-esteem....she is allowing this to happen to her child and probably her (dont understand the original post clearly) Her not being able to get out of the situation maybe her not having anything/anyone else to stand on. The man helping her maybe her only way out...plus come on the west indiaes?? nuff woman does tek blows out dey...this could be a good thing...the thing that i don't agree with is him wanting a relationship with her as soon as she comes up...she'll be scarred and inlove still...

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