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    Do you EXPECT your mate to be fat after she...

    Has a child or two? Would it piss you off if she made little or no effort to get her body in shape after having children?

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    honestly..how long after a woman has given birth to a child/children do men expect them to be back in shape...

    a woman has to give her body at least 6 weeks to recuperate from labor...
    yes some of us lose the baby fat and belly almost immediately especially if we were in great shape going into the pregnancy...
    but a woman's weight has alot more to do than with just the pregnancy, it has a lot to do with emotions, hormones and the situation at hand...a new mom does not have the time to think about constant exercise and eating health conscious food..when she has a screaming newborn on her hand and baby daddy that refuses to help either...

    just my

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    Quote Originally Posted by clchick View Post
    honestly..how long after a woman has given birth to a child/children do men expect them to be back in shape...

    a woman has to give her body at least 6 weeks to recuperate from labor...
    yes some of us lose the baby fat and belly almost immediately especially if we were in great shape going into the pregnancy...
    but a woman's weight has alot more to do than with just the pregnancy, it has a lot to do with emotions, hormones and the situation at hand...a new mom does not have the time to think about constant exercise and eating health conscious food..when she has a screaming newborn on her hand and baby daddy that refuses to help either...

    just my


    One Year.


    And that stuff in bold is just pure bullshit.

    Whats up with the baby daddy shit?? Your supposed to have a husband before you have a child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyRomance View Post
    One Year.


    And that stuff in bold is just pure bullshit.

    Whats up with the baby daddy shit?? Your supposed to have a husband before you have a child.
    well there are a lot of co-habitating relationships that have not resulted in a marriage with a child/children in common.
    welcome to 2007...modern society
    and some men live with their baby mamas for the child sake too...
    it's just a different scenario than the norm or old school way of thinking

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    I would expect her to gain weight during pregnancy, and a reasonable time to drop the extra pounds would be 1 year.

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    Quote Originally Posted by clchick View Post
    well there are a lot of co-habitating relationships that have not resulted in a marriage with a child/children in common.
    welcome to 2007...modern society
    and some men live with their baby mamas for the child sake too...
    it's just a different scenario than the norm or old school way of thinking

    Yes, its call the disintegration of the Black family. Part of the reason the youth are so fawked up. Babymomma Squallar is not an advantage, just an FYI.

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    If I'm expected to lose weight after one year I expect my husband* to buff up within that same time frame.

    *Ideally that's the relationship I want pre-baby
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    Quote Originally Posted by laFemmeChaude View Post
    If I'm expected to lose weight after one year I expect my husband* to buff up within that same time frame.

    *Ideally that's the relationship I want pre-baby


    Sounds reasonable

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyRomance View Post
    Yes, its call the disintegration of the Black family. Part of the reason the youth are so fawked up. Babymomma Squallar is not an advantage, just an FYI.
    I never said anything about the black family..this is happening across the board..just in some cultures it is more openly spoken about and readily accepted than others..
    and believe me...there does not necessarily have to be animosity between 2 people who live together as what is painted by the media.

    My grandparents lived together for 20 years and had 9 children before they were married...and the children never really knew any differently until they spoke about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyRomance View Post
    Sounds reasonable
    funniest ones are those women who blaming fatness on baby fat and the child getting ready for grade school

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyRomance View Post
    Has a child or two? Would it piss you off if she made little or no effort to get her body in shape after having children?
    YES... it would piss me off. but i would take her to the gym and work out with her
    Last edited by Canalero; 06-20-2007 at 04:33 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by No Fixed Address View Post
    funniest ones are those women who blaming fatness on baby fat and the child getting ready for grade school

    yep my son is nine and i still got baby fat
    We going from Sun til Sun.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sugar Apple View Post
    yep my son is nine and i still got baby fat
    lol u lie

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    Quote Originally Posted by No Fixed Address View Post
    funniest ones are those women who blaming fatness on baby fat and the child getting ready for grade school

    When the child look like this....




    Its no surprise the mommy look like....


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sugar Apple View Post
    yep my son is nine and i still got baby fat
    lol...ive seen your pic...u look good so its ok....

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