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    Quote Originally Posted by Honkie View Post
    Another reason to beat gyal
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    Quote Originally Posted by triniameri View Post
    Nothing sexier than a man cooking and one that cooks very well ...I also have a weakness for men who can make a nice cup of tea, especially after a long day at work or if I am not feeling well
    yes lord,
    i made the decision to marry my ex husband after he made me some chicken foot soup when i had some bad cramps during my period....oh god....i miss him sometimes boy...di damn jackass ...loved to watch him knead dumpling with such strength...then come rub mi belly with such tenderness
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    you ALL AGREE with my opinion, which is why NONE of you ever EFFECTIVELY DISPUTE IT

    you ONLY have faith in the WOMEN'S ability to ELEVATE which is why you only FOCUS ON WOMEN...you ALL have long given up on Black men

    you just don't have the BALLS to OVERTLY AGREE....rather just do it INDIRECTLY

    weak men only can deal with weaker women

    in the presence of strength you diminish...

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    Quote Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni View Post
    so he doesn't know your address to come pick you up for a date?????

    you just are going to meet him everywhere?

    how do you establish a comfort level if you don't attempt to make the person feel comfortable?

    i don't see nothing wrong with inviting someone over for dinner, wine, and conversation....that's how you build a connection with someone
    Poca has a child so a person she has been dating for 2 months should not be coming to her house or having more than a vague idea where she lives. The rest of what she talking about tho...
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    Quote Originally Posted by BacchanalDiva View Post
    Poca has a child so a person she has been dating for 2 months should not be coming to her house or having more than a vague idea where she lives. The rest of what she talking about tho...
    i would assume, the same way you can get a babysitter to go out....that you would get a babysitter to stay in for a date

    but what do i know
    you ALL AGREE with my opinion, which is why NONE of you ever EFFECTIVELY DISPUTE IT

    you ONLY have faith in the WOMEN'S ability to ELEVATE which is why you only FOCUS ON WOMEN...you ALL have long given up on Black men

    you just don't have the BALLS to OVERTLY AGREE....rather just do it INDIRECTLY

    weak men only can deal with weaker women

    in the presence of strength you diminish...

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    Quote Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni View Post
    i would assume, the same way you can get a babysitter to go out....that you would get a babysitter to stay in for a date

    but what do i know
    Nah. Something creepy about a man you just getting to know up in your family space.
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    Child or no child, no date will know my address after two months.
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    Some of you going die alone.
    Bout 2 months. Ain't nobody got time for that.
    Any dude waiting that long smashing something in the interim and dumping your azz as soon as he hits.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BacchanalDiva View Post
    Nah. Something creepy about a man you just getting to know up in your family space.
    Quote Originally Posted by Poca! View Post
    Child or no child, no date will know my address after two months.
    ok....now this makes me wonder....since the two of you SEEM to be SOMEWHAT OPPOSITE PERSONALITIES


    i wonder how this would be perceived by men.....

    i know Poca saying it, comes off as stush, crazy, dysfunctional and unreasonable....but when BD says it, i wonder if the men perceive it to be a very reasonable standard that any decent woman would have
    you ALL AGREE with my opinion, which is why NONE of you ever EFFECTIVELY DISPUTE IT

    you ONLY have faith in the WOMEN'S ability to ELEVATE which is why you only FOCUS ON WOMEN...you ALL have long given up on Black men

    you just don't have the BALLS to OVERTLY AGREE....rather just do it INDIRECTLY

    weak men only can deal with weaker women

    in the presence of strength you diminish...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Small Totee View Post
    Some of you going die alone.
    Bout 2 months. Ain't nobody got time for that.
    Any dude waiting that long smashing something in the interim and dumping your azz as soon as he hits.
    the devil is awake lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni View Post
    ok....now this makes me wonder....since the two of you SEEM to be SOMEWHAT OPPOSITE PERSONALITIES


    i wonder how this would be perceived by men.....

    i know Poca saying it, comes off as stush, crazy, dysfunctional and unreasonable....but when BD says it, i wonder if the men perceive it to be a very reasonable standard that any decent woman would have
    It's ridiculous regardless of who says it.
    Their dating pool must consist of the ex-cons and parolees.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni View Post
    ok....now this makes me wonder....since the two of you SEEM to be SOMEWHAT OPPOSITE PERSONALITIES


    i wonder how this would be perceived by men.....

    i know Poca saying it, comes off as stush, crazy, dysfunctional and unreasonable....but when BD says it, i wonder if the men perceive it to be a very reasonable standard that any decent woman would have
    Notice she added the "child or no child"..not that I'd bring any stranger into my home if I were a single, childless woman..but I'd rely on my intuition and go w/ the flow more. When child involved is when its a whole different ballgame to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Small Totee View Post
    Some of you going die alone.
    Bout 2 months. Ain't nobody got time for that.
    Any dude waiting that long smashing something in the interim and dumping your azz as soon as he hits.
    You could bring them home and bull them 1st date and it still go down like that so wha?

    Quote Originally Posted by Small Totee View Post
    It's ridiculous regardless of who says it.
    Their dating pool must consist of the ex-cons and parolees.
    One never knows.
    "Those who are able to see beyond the shadows and lies of their culture will never be understood, let alone believed, by the masses." -Plato

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    Not only men, Nikki. Most react to the poster rather than the message in the post...

    Such is life!


    Quote Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni View Post
    ok....now this makes me wonder....since the two of you SEEM to be SOMEWHAT OPPOSITE PERSONALITIES


    i wonder how this would be perceived by men.....

    i know Poca saying it, comes off as stush, crazy, dysfunctional and unreasonable....but when BD says it, i wonder if the men perceive it to be a very reasonable standard that any decent woman would have
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