Thread: Condoms & Marriage

most ppl (hopefully all ) use condoms in their day-to-days lives with their girlfriends/boyfriends...will you still use them with your S.O. after you get married??? why or why not??? if you do choose to use them, do you think that will affect the trust level you two should have upon entering the marriage???

use condoms? *chupse* I en marrying he den!

*slaps this post with a used condom*

Originally Posted by Essiquibo

*slaps this post with a used condom*

say what u want to but i kno ppl that use them after marriage and i continually ask them why...cyah get a good answer yet

No doubt about it.
No without it

untill there is a cure no one should ever go without using it
unless they are trying to procreate

Originally Posted by south'oman

say what u want to but i kno ppl that use them after marriage and i continually ask them why...cyah get a good answer yet

Because there is a deadly disease out there

Originally Posted by DreadJockey

Because there is a deadly disease out there

i understand that but as u can see, alot of ppl disagree with that...so even after you get married, you plan on using condoms indefinitely???

Well, if you don't want kids, and there is some reason that wifey doe not want to use birth control, then I don't see a problem.

Originally Posted by jabjabposse

Well, if you don't want kids, and there is some reason that wifey doe not want to use birth control, then I don't see a problem.

let's say u already have kids and yuh married for years and years (20+), would u still use condoms???

Originally Posted by south'oman

i understand that but as u can see, alot of ppl disagree with that...so even after you get married, you plan on using condoms indefinitely???

As long as there is a killer disease out there I think that everyone should use condoms ALL(except procreation time) the time

no butts

Originally Posted by DreadJockey

As long as there is a killer disease out there I think that everyone should use condoms ALL(except procreation time) the time

no butts

A-A.

Originally Posted by south'oman

let's say u already have kids and yuh married for years and years (20+), would u still use condoms???

If there is no chance of her getting pregnant, then of course not.

Originally Posted by DreadJockey

As long as there is a killer disease out there I think that everyone should use condoms ALL(except procreation time) the time

no butts

not to get into yuh bizness nah , but your adamance is intriguing...what if you and the wife decided to take hiv tests before marriage, would you still want to wear condoms?? ah see de "no butts" eh, but again, i would like to understand your point...

Originally Posted by Toppa_Toppa

A-A.

Originally Posted by south'oman

not to get into yuh bizness nah , but your adamance is intriguing...what if you and the wife decided to take hiv tests before marriage, would you still want to wear condoms?? ah see de "no butts" eh, but again, i would like to understand your point...

My dear HIV test are very present tense
and thats a 6 month window
Some cancontract something in an instant.
I simply would not trust my life to someone in such a fasion.
There are many accounts of foolish/trusting people who contract disease from their longterm(yes even 20+ years) partners