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    Choices Part1

    You Decided to get married,
    Is that a good choice of life?

    Why?

    how do you propose to maintain your commitment?

    Maintaining meaning keeping you and your S/O happy and healthy..
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    is that a good choice? prob largely depends on who you're marrying
    you don't have to disrespect or insult others simply to hold your own ground. if you do, that shows how shaky your own position is.
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    I donít want nobody but you...
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    Quote Originally Posted by agroDOLCE View Post
    is that a good choice? prob largely depends on who you're marrying
    Nothing depends upon who you marry?
    Just discussing the choice of marriage and how you propose to deal with it..
    A happy and blissful union depends upon both parties ability to deal with their social surroundings.
    IE:Family, Friends, Co-workers ect.

    Just by observing some of these board members here I can tell they do not have a successful relationship with their S/O..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swollen View Post
    Nothing depends upon who you marry?
    Just discussing the choice of marriage and how you propose to deal with it..
    A happy and blissful union depends upon both parties ability to deal with their social surroundings.
    IE:Family, Friends, Co-workers ect.

    Just by observing some of these board members here I can tell they do not have a successful relationship with their S/O..
    How you come to that conclusion ? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by biggadon View Post
    How you come to that conclusion ? lol
    the way we communicate with one another....

    I know its not the same..but on some level, its telling...

    the vast majority of IMIXERs don't want to be wrong..are very unyielding and will argue tooth and nail..back and forth, back and forth...hardly anyone has the ability to walk away and just drop it..(for fear that leaving the argument means they lost) lol..THAT one thing alone cannot live in ANY healthy relationship

    don't let me get started on the insults and name calling..lolololol
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    Quote Originally Posted by biggadon View Post
    How you come to that conclusion ? lol
    Ah think LOTR did it good..
    Now Answer these.

    How many friends do you have?

    Are you Married?

    What values do you have of marriage? (ie: your learned values)

    A lil Bit bout myself I'm entering 35 years of Marriage, I have had some ups and downs, but with the family and friends I'm surrounded by, I think me and my S/O has done really well..

    Recently I've met a few people who have only being married for six or eight years,
    and one party deciding that they don't want to be married anymore. ( I tend to distance myself from people like this..)

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    Quote Originally Posted by LIONESS onda RISE View Post
    the way we communicate with one another....

    I know its not the same..but on some level, its telling...

    the vast majority of IMIXERs don't want to be wrong..are very unyielding and will argue tooth and nail..back and forth, back and forth...hardly anyone has the ability to walk away and just drop it..(for fear that leaving the argument means they lost) lol..THAT one thing alone cannot live in ANY healthy relationship

    don't let me get started on the insults and name calling..lolololol
    What people do anonymously on a message board is not really a good measure of how they communicate with people in their lives.

    I personally know its very hard to determine how a person deals with their spouse based solely on how they conduct themselves at work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgeflash View Post
    What people do anonymously on a message board is not really a good measure of how they communicate with people in their lives.

    I personally know its very hard to determine how a person deals with their spouse based solely on how they conduct themselves at work.
    Well Surprise surprise

    How do you deal with your marriage?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swollen View Post
    Well Surprise surprise

    How do you deal with your marriage?
    Strong pimp hand (metaphorically speaking)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgeflash View Post
    Strong pimp hand (metaphorically speaking)
    Lol quick wit as usual,
    Are you in fear of your sexual abilities?

    Pimps are normally physically abusive to compensate for their sexual inabilities to satisfy their mates..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swollen View Post
    Lol quick wit as usual,
    Are you in fear of your sexual abilities?

    Pimps are normally physically abusive to compensate for their sexual inabilities to satisfy their mates..
    I never lay hand on a woman for ANY reason.
    Way too many men in the world to bax dung if I ever find the need to resort to violence.

    Again I used "pimp hand" only as a metaphor.
    Most dudes these days don't know how to check their females without getting ignant.

    A simple glance from me is enough for wifey to adjust her behavior.
    That is borne more out of respect than fear.
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    I have a few folks I call friends and some associates/pardnas

    yes married 21 yrs together 27

    I have learned many things from my marriage to many to mention... I too have ups and down that is inevitable in any real relationship ....over the years I have seen other couples we know get divorce and some go thru real drama but like George Flash said I too have a STRONG PIMP HAND <=== just a metaphor.... I let it be known to her that what ever is happening in someone else marriage dont bring that poison to ours...you know some women always feel if you bredren cheating you must be too.. that kind of poison !


    Quote Originally Posted by Swollen View Post
    Ah think LOTR did it good..
    Now Answer these.

    How many friends do you have?

    Are you Married?

    What values do you have of marriage? (ie: your learned values)

    A lil Bit bout myself I'm entering 35 years of Marriage, I have had some ups and downs, but with the family and friends I'm surrounded by, I think me and my S/O has done really well..

    Recently I've met a few people who have only being married for six or eight years,
    and one party deciding that they don't want to be married anymore. ( I tend to distance myself from people like this..)
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    Who were these Playas on himix who mislead these women all these years?
    Leading em to whoredom n loneliness

    Oh have casual sex
    Oh lemme see your bress
    Oh marriage is wack n for wite people
    Oh let's link up for one of our regular soca orgiez
    Lol
    Lol

    That's all fine n well
    Yet what were the women not told

    Men live to fuk hoes yet not for wife
    Silly need a daddy n an overwhelming need to be complimented dumbasses

    Now run to church n love blk god

    And these olden hoes who mislead the younger hoes
    Tell em fukry u Know will have the man leave
    Hell fire bun onu wicked old badmind gal

    House dun demolished

    Ladies if y'all serious
    Close your damn legs
    Leave the attitude
    Forget strong blk bish lezboz fukry
    N be nice
    N not a hater rayciss biatch
    That's it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trini Juan View Post
    Who were these Playas on himix who mislead these women all these years?
    Leading em to whoredom n loneliness

    Oh have casual sex
    Oh lemme see your bress
    Oh marriage is wack n for wite people
    Oh let's link up for one of our regular soca orgiez
    Lol
    Lol

    That's all fine n well
    Yet what were the women not told

    Men live to fuk hoes yet not for wife
    Silly need a daddy n an overwhelming need to be complimented dumbasses

    Now run to church n love blk god

    And these olden hoes who mislead the younger hoes
    Tell em fukry u Know will have the man leave
    Hell fire bun onu wicked old badmind gal

    House dun demolished

    Ladies if y'all serious
    Close your damn legs
    Leave the attitude
    Forget strong blk bish lezboz fukry
    N be nice
    N not a hater rayciss biatch
    That's it
    Boy.. Shut yo mouf!!!
    BELLY FULL BUT DEM STARVIN'

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