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    cheating...is it inevitable in relationships?

    what do u think?
    from what i gather in several threads this wk & my own experience, i'm feeling that cheating should be expected at some point in the relationship.

    ladies AND men feel free to reply...

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    I dont think it is expected, but it may happen in some relationships.

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    No..I do not think it is inevitable...It is a CONCIOUS decision that is made...I think excuses such as “I was drunk”…”I was weak…”blah..blah..blah..is Bull…
    Last edited by trinisunshine; 09-23-2005 at 11:24 PM.

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    I'll admit that I expect it to happen...that's why I'll stay single for the time being. I know it's not fair but that's the way I feel for now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sk gyal
    I'll admit that I expect it to happen...that's why I'll stay single for the time being. I know it's not fair but that's the way I feel for now.
    Finding yourself is definitely a beautiful thing! I did it for one year, now I know what I want!

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    I don't know if it should be expected, but I've been cheated on TWICE & it's still hard for me to trust men, but at the same time, I can't go around treating every man like he's a dog. While I'm still scarred by what they did to me, I still don't find it impossible to be with someone who wouldn't cheat on me.
    Still standing...:)

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    Quote Originally Posted by spicydimples
    what do u think?
    from what i gather in several threads this wk & my own experience, i'm feeling that cheating should be expected at some point in the relationship.

    ladies AND men feel free to reply...
    If your expecting your spouse/significant other to cheat in the relationship then your leaving no room for ataraxia.

    It also depends on how each individual views the relationship and on what level of seriousness one is taking it. Then again, if you consider him your boyfriend and believe it is a serious relationship, and he has a whole different opinion. It can't really be considered cheating.

    It doesn't have to be expected because you don't want your partner to believe you don't have that much faith or trust in them. Cheating can happen and there is a possibility in every relationship, but I would hope that when you are in a relationship with someone, them cheating isn't your main focus, because if it is, that can destroy the relationship itself.


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    If yuh doh communicate it will happen

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    Quote Originally Posted by Desperado
    If yuh doh communicate it will happen
    i communicatin wit yuh and yuh still horn meh :

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    Quote Originally Posted by BajanPryncess
    I don't know if it should be expected, but I've been cheated on TWICE & it's still hard for me to trust men, but at the same time, I can't go around treating every man like he's a dog. While I'm still scarred by what they did to me, I still don't find it impossible to be with someone who wouldn't cheat on me.
    Damn girl, probably you need some time for yourself. I have been cheated on once and after that I said I will never trust a man again, but I couldnt hold up. They so cute and furry!
    After my last relationship break up, (not the same one) I was by myself for a year, but messing with people. I really found out what I want and what I was about.

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    Its men yuh talking about or a stuffed animal
    Quote Originally Posted by buss up shot
    They so cute and furry!

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    Quote Originally Posted by trinisunshine
    Its men yuh talking about or a stuffed animal
    Men oui!
    That is why we call dem dogs because they are cute and furry!
    No?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DevSxy
    i communicatin wit yuh and yuh still horn meh :
    Well I see yuh trackin that red fella so...I even call yuh to have breakfast dis morning and yuh ask me if he could come too..
    Last edited by Desperado; 09-24-2005 at 07:05 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spicydimples
    what do u think?
    from what i gather in several threads this wk & my own experience, i'm feeling that cheating should be expected at some point in the relationship.

    ladies AND men feel free to reply...

    i'm not pessimistic like that.i'm sure relationships can stand the test of time without either party cheating.

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    it is almost inevitable if the relationship is not stable. it is also selfish as fvck but that is for another thread

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