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    good posts all...
    in general people are grimy and fukd up....
    yet those folks arent really a bother its the sick people....
    the ones who will plot and scheme and hurt a person for no reason other than they mentally ill....
    hence you intentional haters and then you have compulsive haters.....

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    not even slightly concerned with haters..or recognizing/identifying them.

    i feel that ppl who always think someone is hating on them is usually the one with a problem
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shabeel View Post
    It's easy to recognize. When someone says something completely weird and hurtful for no reason, that's a hater. Criticism is one thing. Hating aka unprovoked meanness is completely different.

    I used to think I don't have any haters or enemies and that everybody loves me.


    I just don't have the strength to believe that anymore right now.

    The more I try to do something with my life, the more I notice people that I don't know coming out of the blue to hurt me and disrespect me, or friends complaining that they're not included in what I do, when I do want to try and make everyone climb with me.

    And when it gets too much for me, I just kind of isolate myself for a while.

    That stuff really gets me down and makes me feel lonely.
    the part in red is how i feel, but i gotta go through the motions before assuming that someone is jealous, what type of shit is that? What, that im soooooooo friggen awesome and she must be hating? Nah, but if truly no offense has been made and the person is still acting a way, yea, its hateraide alright...i never get upset or depressed about it tho, just dissapointed...and i always say, if u THINK u don't like me, its cause u dont know me...ERRRRRRRRRRRYBODY looooooooooves me
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    The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
    The Four Agreements are very simple, but very profound. To embrace and live each of the Four Agreements is to find yourself experiencing personal freedom--possibly as never before. The Four Agreements are:

    Be Impeccable With Your Words
    Don't Take Anything Personally
    Don't Make Assumptions
    Always Do Your Best

    From the cover of the book:

    Be Impeccable With Your Word: Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

    Don't Take Anything Personally: Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

    Don't Make Assumptions: Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

    Always Do Your Best: Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

    This book may be small in size, but it packs a hefty punch in terms of shattering personal illusions and opening up a path to personal freedom.
    “A sharp knife never proclaims it’s sharpness to the world…but the first to fall against it becomes it’s advocate.”

    You can put any face behind a mask but be careful cos someone else might be pretending. You might not be the only one with a secret -- Cassie/Gretel

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    and i always say, if u THINK u don't like me, its cause u dont know me...
    lol nice way of putting it

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    ERRRRRRRRRRRYBODY looooooooooves me
    errrrbody & alex

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    the part in red is how i feel, but i gotta go through the motions before assuming that someone is jealous, what type of shit is that? What, that im soooooooo friggen awesome and she must be hating? Nah, but if truly no offense has been made and the person is still acting a way, yea, its hateraide alright...i never get upset or depressed about it tho, just dissapointed...and i always say, if u THINK u don't like me, its cause u dont know me...ERRRRRRRRRRRYBODY looooooooooves me
    you seem to assume i base my sentiment on the statement made today and that in itself is erroneous... most folk who know me know that i am very communicative and if i feel that there is some sort of disagreement then i will generally have a tete-a-tete with other parties involved and explain my position.. if i am wrong i take responsibility and apologize and if the other person is wrong i state why i did not like what they say and tell them the consequences of them doin said action again.. i know how to fight fairly... but with some folks, its like even stating that you have an issue with something is cause for drama and after a while it gets tiring.. when people get on my nerves, i pull away from them.. then i hear talk about not knowing anybody blah blah blah.. and often it comes from my reality being different from theirs..and then it turns into a long drawn out set of bullshit..

    my outlook in life is always that it really doesnt matter what you do in your own life, i am not going to be jealous or angry cos honestly i dont care.. as in i dont harbor jealousy for other people's things, jobs, etc etc.. if i aint get it myself then eff it.. if you making a million after taxes then good for you.. if you are a bum and partying all the time then good for you.. i let you do you.. however with some folk it feels like they take you doing what YOU doing as proof that you feel you better than them or some other shit.. i do not think like that because there is no day that i wake up and think that anybody is better than me.. 99% of the time, people who feel that i feel i am "better than them" engage in activities or pursuits that i am not interested in and i don't feign interest..

    Mentality to me is everything yes.. if i offer somebody a beer and they say no thanks.. i'lll just say okay fine.. i would probably surmise that they dont like the taste of beer and call that a day... i would never have the thought that that person feel they too good to drink a beer and if it was some kinda liquor i bet they woulda drink it but because is only a beer they dont want it.. that is how dat other person would think.. like me refusing the beer is me rejecting them, their ideals, their lifestyle. and sometimes i just want to focking scream.. I DONT LIKE BEER! that's all.. i do not like beer! so what do i do??

    i actually prefer when people straight out tell me they dont like me or let me know outright they not on me.. i can respect that.. but dont be on the fake shit...i dont tolerate that much.. if i dont like you trust me, you know..

    as for this person.. if you feel i'm this way or that way.. fine.. no problem but just dont be slick with the underhand random shit.. we too grown for that!

    Quote Originally Posted by Shabeel View Post
    lol nice way of putting it



    errrrbody & alex
    lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by ladyrastafari View Post
    you seem to assume i base my sentiment on the statement made today and that in itself is erroneous... most folk who know me know that i am very communicative and if i feel that there is some sort of disagreement then i will generally have a tete-a-tete with other parties involved and explain my position.. if i am wrong i take responsibility and apologize and if the other person is wrong i state why i did not like what they say and tell them the consequences of them doin said action again.. i know how to fight fairly... but with some folks, its like even stating that you have an issue with something is cause for drama and after a while it gets tiring.. when people get on my nerves, i pull away from them.. then i hear talk about not knowing anybody blah blah blah.. and often it comes from my reality being different from theirs..and then it turns into a long drawn out set of bullshit..

    my outlook in life is always that it really doesnt matter what you do in your own life, i am not going to be jealous or angry cos honestly i dont care.. as in i dont harbor jealousy for other people's things, jobs, etc etc.. if i aint get it myself then eff it.. if you making a million after taxes then good for you.. if you are a bum and partying all the time then good for you.. i let you do you.. however with some folk it feels like they take you doing what YOU doing as proof that you feel you better than them or some other shit.. i do not think like that because there is no day that i wake up and think that anybody is better than me.. 99% of the time, people who feel that i feel i am "better than them" engage in activities or pursuits that i am not interested in and i don't feign interest..

    Mentality to me is everything yes.. if i offer somebody a beer and they say no thanks.. i'lll just say okay fine.. i would probably surmise that they dont like the taste of beer and call that a day... i would never have the thought that that person feel they too good to drink a beer and if it was some kinda liquor i bet they woulda drink it but because is only a beer they dont want it.. that is how dat other person would think.. like me refusing the beer is me rejecting them, their ideals, their lifestyle. and sometimes i just want to focking scream.. I DONT LIKE BEER! that's all.. i do not like beer! so what do i do??

    i actually prefer when people straight out tell me they dont like me or let me know outright they not on me.. i can respect that.. but dont be on the fake shit...i dont tolerate that much.. if i dont like you trust me, you know..

    as for this person.. if you feel i'm this way or that way.. fine.. no problem but just dont be slick with the underhand random shit.. we too grown for that!
    Sparknotes version plz

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    There are people that will always say some slick shyt just because more often than not its someone that knows u or knows of you. I wouldn't take it on. if there is a way to block them from commenting in ur pics then do that. Or just delete the comment.

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    Some people in this thread are lying, there are people on this site who are critical and suspicious over trivial shit, when people make 10 page threads about WTF the girl wearing in the pic ,blabber off about reality TV threads(BasketBall Wives and Real Housewives of Atlanta),and are so interested what went down at this fete or party ,there is no doubt many IMIXers definitely show symptoms of a hater.

    I know a hater, and I don't let them get that close to what ever I am doing in life, when I was younger ,my senses were a little numb to picking them up, but now they are readily identifiable on my radar.I have also developed the ability to care less what they are saying.

    Quote Originally Posted by BABYLOC View Post
    not even slightly concerned with haters..or recognizing/identifying them.

    i feel that ppl who always think someone is hating on them is usually the one with a problem
    That's life, haters are around and have many methods of haterising , I definitely know when I am dealing with a hater , I make it an objective to pay them no mind and keeping them from around me,that haterism can influence you and affect your thought process, and I don't want any slouches influencing me and putting the wrong stuff in my head.
    Last edited by NaturalBornRidah; 03-24-2012 at 10:56 AM.

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    I AM a hater.
    I hate on all kind of people. I enjoy hating.

    Most of the time when I hate on someone it's because of my first impression of them. I usually don't change my mind and take everything they do to reinforce why I don't like them.

    The major part of hating is to undermine the very thing that most people thing is the hatees strength.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgeflash View Post
    I AM a hater.
    I hate on all kind of people. I enjoy hating.

    Most of the time when I hate on someone it's because of my first impression of them. I usually don't change my mind and take everything they do to reinforce why I don't like them.

    The major part of hating is to undermine the very thing that most people thing is the hatees strength.
    Living like Peggy, plotting like Joan

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    some of allyuh too old to be running round the place talk bout "hater"...
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    Quote Originally Posted by caribflexbk View Post
    There are people that will always say some slick shyt just because more often than not its someone that knows u or knows of you. I wouldn't take it on. if there is a way to block them from commenting in ur pics then do that. Or just delete the comment.
    yea.. thats kinda what you want to determine eh.. why?? if it's somebody who is always there for you, always have your back, why the hell are you trying to undermine them on some slick shyt?? i dunno.. and the funny thing about it is the people who seem to enjoy doing shit like that, never seem to progress far in life.. too busy cuttin down other people beanstalk to climb theirs...

    Quote Originally Posted by NaturalBornRidah View Post
    Some people in this thread are lying, there are people on this site who are critical and suspicious over trivial shit, when people make 10 page threads about WTF the girl wearing in the pic ,blabber off about reality TV threads(BasketBall Wives and Real Housewives of Atlanta),and are so interested what went down at this fete or party ,there is no doubt many IMIXers definitely show symptoms of a hater.

    I know a hater, and I don't let them get that close to what ever I am doing in life, when I was younger ,my senses were a little numb to picking them up, but now they are readily identifiable on my radar.I have also developed the ability to care less what they are saying.



    That's life, haters are around and have many methods of haterising , I definitely know when I am dealing with a hater , I make it an objective to pay them no mind and keeping them from around me,that haterism can influence you and affect your thought process, and I don't want any slouches influencing me and putting the wrong stuff in my head.
    i see

    Quote Originally Posted by Garrison View Post
    some of allyuh too old to be running round the place talk bout "hater"...
    you should be the last person to run around talkin bout too old to do x, y, or z cos you always carrying news lol..
    Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

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    el oh el
    as mod of imix
    this thread is very el oh el

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    didnt you come in here before?
    Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

    Velvet Glove. Iron Fist

    mi style still sharp .....u a A-Minor and dem a B-Flat

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