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    To the Black Women on IMIX

    Care to explain why so many of you are baby mothers and not wives to the men you procreate with?

    I'm also a black woman and it irks me to no end to see so many of us laying down and having children with men who refuse to make us wives. Or is it that you'd rather be introduced as his "baby mama" than his wife?

    Please explain.

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    dang

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    I have no kids and it's not my intention to have any .... let alone out of wedlock

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    d stage is in front of us, time to get advantageous...... Stamp on it, stamp on it, stamp on it, trample it, trample it, trample it, rample it, rample it, rample it!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nica View Post
    I have no kids and it's not my intention to have any .... let alone out of wedlock
    shit happens ...would u abort the baby if u were not married and had no intentions on it just yet??

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    Quote Originally Posted by nica View Post
    i have no kids and it's not my intention to have any .... Let alone out of wedlock
    +1000000000000000!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    shit happens ...would u abort the baby if u were not married and had no intentions on it just yet??
    so ur saying ur kid was just a casualty of careless sexual activity??

    From you have life you have everyting
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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    shit happens ...would u abort the baby if u were not married and had no intentions on it just yet??
    if it happens then I have no one else to blame but myself because I would have been careless. If that is the case then ofcourse I would keep the child. I know mistakes can happen so I do my best to be carefull and also I don't sleep with anyman who I cannot see myself having a child with...because shit happens as you say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimmyK View Post
    so ur saying ur kid was just a casualty of careless sexual activity??

    no dear...u don't know anyone that got knocked up?? I do! lol

    Quote Originally Posted by Nica View Post
    if it happens then I have no one else to blame but myself because I would have been careless. If that is the case then ofcourse I would keep the child. I know mistakes can happen so I do my best to be carefull and also I don't sleep with anyman who I cannot see myself having a child with...because shit happens as you say.
    true true

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    another most excellent thread

    I am caught between laughing and sighing quite loudlly

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    why not do both...laugh rehl loud and then let out a sigh with a at the end

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triniminx View Post
    no dear...u don't know anyone that got knocked up?? I do! lol

    i mean,u just kinda made it sound like it was no biggie and came with the territory,

    maybe i misinterpreted,

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimmyK View Post
    so ur saying ur kid was just a casualty of careless sexual activity??

    lollo like the maaaaaaany people that are in the world or on this very board right now, even people that are in marriages O_o can you believe it?
    “A sharp knife never proclaims it’s sharpness to the world…but the first to fall against it becomes it’s advocate.”

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimmyK View Post
    i mean,u just kinda made it sound like it was no biggie and came with the territory,

    maybe i misinterpreted,

    *shrug*
    not sure where u live, but women having babies out of wedlock is quite the norm so ...even if i slipped, i wouldn't be ashame...everything happens for a reason

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