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Thread: Are black men selfish for not dating Black Single mothers?

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    Are black men selfish for not dating Black Single mothers?

    What do you all think?

    Since the community is lacking in male leadership in the homes where we can all agree that the majority of children these days come from single parent homes, are black men who do not consider dating black women with children selfish?

    Reason why i ask was from a conversation from a chick who actually said, a black man that knows the lack of male figures in the household should step up and at least give black women who are single and have children a chance.

    Interesting, but before i indulge in this convo, i would like i hear your opinions on this first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bago20 View Post
    What do you all think?

    Since the community is lacking in male leadership in the homes where we can all agree that the majority of children these days come from single parent homes, are black men who do not consider dating black women with children selfish?

    Reason why i ask was from a conversation from a chick who actually said, a black man that knows the lack of male figures in the household should step up and at least give black women who are single and have children a chance.

    Interesting, but before i indulge in this convo, i would like i hear your opinions on this first.
    Jah boy. First thing Monday morning?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Toppa_Toppa View Post
    Jah boy. First thing Monday morning?
    Excuse me?

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    I don't have a problem dating ah woman wid kids , but women Wong date me because I am ole wid 5 kids that I know of

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    Depends... If he likes the woman, kids won't matter unless there are an excessive number but I don't think a man should date a woman with kids because he thinks he has to "step up"... One man shouldn't be obligated for another man's lapse.. And it is about the woman's character not if she has kids...
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    it's preference....

    If one don't like baggage one don't have to date some one who has kids for a different man. That's life those things happen, especially in these days that we're living in... i wont mind dating some one who has one kid, but not 2 or 3 hell no...
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    Do it all the time.. I think nothing of it.

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    I don'h have a problem dating women with kids I've done it multiple times. I may limit it to a woman with only one child though.

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    it's based on the type of dating relationship you seek for yourself. i think that most decisions made prior to dating are "selfish" (if you want to use that word), but that's not always a negative thing. people have their preferences and that's what it boils down to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LucianSweetie26 View Post
    it's based on the type of dating relationship you seek for yourself. i think that most decisions made prior to dating are "selfish" (if you want to use that word), but that's not always a negative thing. people have their preferences and that's what it boils down to.
    Basically...

    ......and there are women who will not date men with kids also...

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    i dont mind dating women with kids as long as they pass these requirements.

    baby daddy

    is dead

    in jail

    in another state or country

    or completely not around

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bacchus View Post
    Do it all the time.. I think nothing of it.
    Do you stick around?

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    Quote Originally Posted by T-MAKAA View Post
    Do you stick around?
    whether she got kids or not..... I do what I do...

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