Thread: Is Black Madonna right?

Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni

so you AS A MAN....are saying that a WOMAN CAN, TEACH A MAN TO BE A MAN?

is that what you are going on the record as saying? i want to be fully clear on your stance

I’m saying that women are complaining about what they created

Originally Posted by NASDAQ

I’m saying that women are complaining about what they created

women created the circumstance of single parenthood???

*guffaw*

i'm done....

Not all no. There are however a lot of males that lack proper male role models/figure in their life to teach them about being a man. A lot of them end up becoming immature b i t c h e s that pick up a lot of traits which are considered "catty" / "effeminate" / "female" ... and it makes them look weak. This also affects a lot of other interactions in their lives.

The family unit is a big deal. It's where everything begins. Good fathers, or a positive-consistent male mentor/role model is important in preventing a lot of developmental issues with boys.

Originally Posted by NASDAQ

I agree with u that there are things a woman cannot teach a boy/young man n there are things a man cannot teach a girl/young lady.


But if he was never there how can it be his fault? She taught him all he knows… I don’t see how mothers can indirectly pass the buck to the absentee father

U all over da place lol.

So the breakdown of family has led men to expect and demand some azz after paying for dinner on a first date so women to quell this expectation now pay for their portion of the meal.

School is out

Originally Posted by kidray

women should pay their way its a good sign for my pockets,I alway used sublinimal messages to let them know they should help me out,we are a team we having a good time,so lets be equals,you have too be real with it.Weak is when a man does someting that is unconfortable to him,You have to set certain standards to begin with.if u become my girl then i will pay and tings if u a starnger u on ur own.you have to use subliminal messages to let them know.

seriously tho how do you do this?


to the rest of the thread... this seems like a headache I'm grateful I never had to double think, triple think stuff like this over.

Originally Posted by NikkiGiovanni

women created the circumstance of single parenthood???

*guffaw*

i'm done....

i'm referring to "overly sensitive men" i'm not putting the blame for broken homes on women

Originally Posted by Steupz

Why can't it work?

because I want what I want... not what you think I deserve

Originally Posted by T-MAKAA

U all over da place lol.

how i all over the place?. the majority of the men today were raised by single mothers, and some feel as though there being too many overly sensitive men i'm saying " is ayo that raise them so"

In response to the last few posts

A woman cannot teach a man how to be a man however a lot of women think or actually believe they can do..You hear some women who try to define manhood by their own personal opinions of what is a good man or what is a real man when they themselves never lived a day with a penis. However this can lead into several different topics so i will stay on course with the thread..

how did a thread about men being weak..asking for male answers, devolve into a thread about what women do ?

Originally Posted by NASDAQ

how i all over the place?. the majority of the men today were raised by single mothers, and some feel as though there being too many overly sensitive men i'm saying " is ayo that raise them so"

How u come up with that, u researched this thoroughly?

Originally Posted by ladyrastafari

how did a thread about men being weak..asking for male answers, devolve into a thread about what women do ?

and these mofos can't take responsibility for answering simple questions on message boards but want us to believe they can take responsibility on a date...lol

Originally Posted by Gladiator

In response to the last few posts

A woman cannot teach a man how to be a man however a lot of women think or actually believe they can do..You hear some women who try to define manhood by their own personal opinions of what is a good man or what is a real man when they themselves never lived a day with a penis. However this can lead into several different topics so i will stay on course with the thread..

maybe being a "man" is secondary to being a human being
A human being would be above all that
prolly the root of a lotta the problems

Originally Posted by Gladiator

In response to the last few posts

A woman cannot teach a man how to be a man however a lot of women think or actually believe they can do..You hear some women who try to define manhood by their own personal opinions of what is a good man or what is a real man when they themselves never lived a day with a penis. However this can lead into several different topics so i will stay on course with the thread..

kinda like men that discuss women's issues when they never had a vagina, don't ya think