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    Becoming a house wife and staying home with kids

    We where having a big debate in my office about stay home wives and independece. I personally could not do it. Give up my career and stay home mind house and kids and have to depend on the man for things......Thats a no - no for me. I am 22222222222222222 independent for that...

    whats ur take????????????

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    I would work part-time as opposed to not working at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luvlee View Post
    I would work part-time as opposed to not working at all.
    what about bank accounts?
    joint
    individual
    or
    both

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    I'm too independant to be a stay at home wife/mom...I would probably stay at home if I won the lottery or inherited some $$$...I would probably still find something to do

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    What does staying at home have to do with independance..?! :

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dark & Lovely View Post
    what about bank accounts?
    joint
    individual
    or
    both
    both.
    Joint checking to pay the bills
    joint savings for trips, emergencies, home improvement, etc.

    Then I would still have my own personal mutual fund on the side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jason kiDD View Post
    What does staying at home have to do with independance..?! :
    Exact same thing I coming to say. Allyuh woman so brainwash it eh even funny nah.

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    No way couldn't do it. Got to have some adult convo. and my own money. I don't like the joint account thing either. I rather we split the bills so some are your responsibility and some are mine...

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    I would want to do the whole housewife thing but only temporarily though(until my child goes to kindergarten)..I would never like to be in that situation where I'll have to be totally dependant on no man. not a good thing to practice at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dark & Lovely View Post
    We where having a big debate in my office about stay home wives and independece. I personally could not do it. Give up my career and stay home mind house and kids and have to depend on the man for things......Thats a no - no for me. I am 22222222222222222 independent for that...

    whats ur take????????????
    even if i didn't work 9-5 for it

    make me a housewife give me an account with funds to do as i please and I could be a housewife

    who says you cant be a housewife and manage a business by working from home...

    that would be my angle

    If we loaded yeah be a housewife

    If we not loaded hell no cuz i like to have my own money!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kia_Free View Post
    I'm too independant to be a stay at home wife/mom...I would probably stay at home if I won the lottery or inherited some $$$...I would probably still find something to do
    Your statement is contradictory.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jason kiDD View Post
    What does staying at home have to do with independance..?! :
    Not having your own salary. Having to count on mr. right for money. so if you want to buy new foundation ( make up) you have to have a discussion about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carnivaldarling View Post
    I would want to do the whole housewife thing but only temporarily though(until my child goes to kindergarten)..I would never like to be in that situation where I'll have to be totally dependant on no man. not a good thing to practice at all.
    D reason allyuh doh wha be dependent on no man is cause allyuh does pick shit fuh men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taj View Post
    even if i didn't work 9-5 for it

    make me a housewife give me an account with funds to do as i please and I could be a housewife

    who says you cant be a housewife and manage a business by working from home...

    that would be my angle

    If we loaded yeah be a housewife

    If we not loaded hell no cuz i like to have my own money!
    taj i like your thinking....let my s/o tell me stay home, he wouldn't have to say it twice.......I know I would not get bored at all but I guess it all depends on the individual......

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