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    Sir Lixx-A-Lot Quest's Avatar Quest is offline
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    To answer some questions I've been asked by some Women about Men.

    HEAR WHAT OPRAH HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

    Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

    Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

    Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

    Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along,then he probably is.

    Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

    You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
    even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

    Never let a man define who you are.

    Never borrow someone else's man.

    If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

    All men are NOT dogs.

    ou should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street.

    You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.

    Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
    Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

    Never move into his mother's house.

    Never co-sign for a man (anyone).

    Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

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    You worserer than I Essiquibo's Avatar Essiquibo is offline
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    i got that email too
    yuh jebratting
    dont be ah jebratt!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Essiquibo
    i got that email too
    yuh jebratting
    dont be ah jebratt!

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    You worserer than I Essiquibo's Avatar Essiquibo is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by jebratt
    we love you..so post about u..not emails and stuff that's been on the net for years

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    I agree with almost everything Oprah had to say but I do believe cheating is a good thing at times. I believe there are ppl who are unhappily married, in a unhappy relationship and their just waiting for someone else to come a long and set them free. Now if everything is fine and dey waan cheat juss cuz, den dais a whole nudda different story.

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    certified INQ

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    Sir Lixx-A-Lot Quest's Avatar Quest is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by elq
    certified INQ
    bump

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    Quote Originally Posted by Essiquibo
    i got that email too
    yuh jebratting
    dont be ah jebratt!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr. Quest
    bump
    yo! why you bumping up old posts?

    Hi Quest, how you doing hon?

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    no wonder oprah have steadman like a punk...she have all de answers
    soundcloud.com/selektacastro

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    Sir Lixx-A-Lot Quest's Avatar Quest is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by ARAMˣITA
    yo! why you bumping up old posts?

    Hi Quest, how you doing hon?
    i'm old that's why so I slow so I got to take my time and reread the post.

    I'm good! just tired as all and i'm actually doing work who would have figured.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Essiquibo
    i got that email too
    yuh jebratting
    dont be ah jebratt!
    I like that jebratting

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    ........ G.T. socalova's Avatar G.T. socalova is offline
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    Quote Originally Posted by Soca Shane
    no wonder oprah have steadman like a punk...she have all de answers

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