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    angry white woman, and a very strong black man.

    Read on............So great to find this Black
    Prince defending us like this...

    It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a
    > >Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad
    she
    > >got what she asked for (and more) !!!
    > >
    > >This letter was written in response to an article in Sister 2 Sister:

    > >
    > >Dear Jamie:
    > >
    > >I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male
    readers.
    > >I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking,
    > >educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's
    > >attitudes about our relationship.
    > >
    > >My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women
    > >were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too

    > >mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too

    > >much excess baggage.
    > >
    > >Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly
    approached
    > >by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If
    > >Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why
    don't
    > >they look at themselves and make some changes.
    > >
    > >I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out
    in
    > >public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so
    > >appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26

    > >years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson

    > >Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry
    > >Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don
    Cornelius,
    > >Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...I could
    go
    > >on and on.
    > >
    > >But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so
    > >hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women
    > >because so many of your men want us.
    > >
    > >Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat

    > >your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know..
    > >
    > >Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
    > >
    > > > > >
    > > > > >
    > >Response:
    > >
    > >Dear Jamie:
    > >
    > >I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White
    Girl.
    > >
    > >Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated

    > >from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia
    with a
    > >Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at
    > >a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I
    consider
    > >myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.
    > > > > >
    > >I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want
    to
    > >set the record straight of why black men date white women.
    > > > > >
    > >Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white

    > >women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my
    > >neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about
    when
    > >they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our
    > >impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it
    up
    > >easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
    > > > > >
    > >Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because
    they
    > >are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
    > >insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated
    by
    > >the strength of our black women.. We are afraid that our woman will be

    > >more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars
    and
    > >own bigger houses.
    > > > > >
    > >Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman.
    > >Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they
    > >continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their

    > >white women.
    > > > > >
    > >I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl
    to
    > >know that not all successful black men date
    > >white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael
    > >Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth
    "Babyface"
    > >Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black
    > >women. And, to flip the scrip, there are numerous white men, in and
    out
    > >of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over
    white
    > >women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
    > >
    > >I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop
    > >thinking that because you are white that you are
    > >some type of goddess.
    > > > > >
    > >Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris
    were
    > >ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the
    caves
    > >of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with
    > >clubs.
    > > > > >
    > >Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook

    > >and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to
    > >praise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and
    > >raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to

    > >endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed,

    > >and thrown in jail.
    > >
    > >Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and
    > >being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
    > > > > >
    > >It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love
    and
    > >beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is
    not
    > >just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not

    > >the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that
    I
    > >love them.
    > > > > >
    > >Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.
    > >Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity,
    their
    > >ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for
    what
    > >they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their
    > >highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why
    > >
    > >I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your
    > >anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy than snotty looks. If
    this
    > >were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to
    darken
    > >your
    > >skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be
    happy
    > >with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips,
    and
    > >breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look
    fuller
    > >and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of
    you
    > >wanting to have what the black woman has.
    > > > > >
    > >BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk

    > >over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am
    > >looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and
    mother
    > >to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my
    > >struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister
    and;
    > >unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken,
    > >none given.
    > >
    > >Signed,
    > >
    > >Black Royalty
    > > > > >
    > > > > >
    > >Wow!! We must pass this on to make the day to the Black Queens of our

    > >acquaintances!

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    amprincess
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    this is old

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    Strong, Sexy & Smart Lioness's Avatar Lioness is offline
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    Originally posted by amprincess
    this is old
    am, how you does find these post and dem so quick? and be the first to respond.:) like you have a search engine out for the words "white woman " or what?
    Last edited by Lioness; 10-02-2003 at 04:32 PM.

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    Originally posted by Lioness
    am, how you does find these post and dem so quick? and be the first to response.:) like you have a search engine out for the words "white woman " or what?

    lmao I have white woman radar :p

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    damn that was deep make meh eyes get blurry the man f@ck she up in ah nice way damn ,

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