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    sebas4920
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    am I player scum?

    I feel like I should be in a relationship with hte girl Im seeing now, but I also think I need to stop because I still try to talk to other girls. I dont date them or sleep with them

    but I worry that she is not perfect

    how self centered am I being?

    I like her, shes very pretty, good sex, we get along.

    of ocurse there are girls Im more into physically, and some I am more into mentally or spiritually.

    but

    who cares, we get along.

    How can I tell?

    I told her that maybe we should just be friends, then she said I never cared abotu her, was lying to her, playing games with her and using her.

    I told her I liked her and cared aobut her and thought she was super cool

    but then she wanted a reason why I didnt want to be with her

    I said I dont know.. I said I didnt want to hurt her feelings anymore than I already had.

    Shes the one I should be with right?

    Or should I just be with no one.

    I think I need to not even worry about this.

    I did like her and care for her tohugh. Why does she think I didnt?

    people hurt others that they care for, it doesnt mean they dont care for them right?

    I thought about her a lot.

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    sebas4920
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    i think i am. i feel like i can love more than one girl. monagamy scares me....

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    Registered User Skilz™'s Avatar Skilz™ is offline
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    Just fuck everybody...you only live once

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    The JaM™
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    Honestly, I don't think you should be with anybody.

    You seem to have some 'issues' where dating/women are concerned. Fix yourself first then look for a partner.

    And btw... you're worried she's not perfect? Are you perfect? Is anybody on the face of this earth perfect? Stop with the BS and get real.

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    sebas4920
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    Quote Originally Posted by Skilz™ View Post
    Just fuck everybody...you only live once
    maybe, but then i wont raise my kundalini or become one with ausar...

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    CocoErotika
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    oh good savior. lawd of mercy.

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    sebas4920
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    Quote Originally Posted by The JaM™ View Post
    Honestly, I don't think you should be with anybody.

    You seem to have some 'issues' where dating/women are concerned. Fix yourself first then look for a partner.

    And btw... you're worried she's not perfect? Are you perfect? Is anybody on the face of thise earth perfect. Stop with the BS and get real.
    you are right. Im a worry wort and hypochondriac.

    Ok what I mean is when I say "she isnt perfect"

    is this:

    what if I meet someone else who I am more into?

    do I just ignore them?


    I mean let me ask you this

    when you are with someone for like 3 months. are you like "yeah I could marry this person!!!"

    Im just grateful for the time we do share together.



    really i am just self centered on all levels

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    maybe, but then i wont raise my kundalini or become one with ausar...
    Yeah but it will raise yuh prick

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    you are right. Im a worry wort and hypochondriac.

    Ok what I mean is when I say "she isnt perfect"

    is this:

    what if I meet someone else who I am more into?

    do I just ignore them?


    I mean let me ask you this

    when you are with someone for like 3 months. are you like "yeah I could marry this person!!!"

    Im just grateful for the time we do share together.



    really i am just self centered on all levels
    You seemed doomed for a life of uncertainty and doubt. Good luck with that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    I feel like I should be in a relationship with hte girl Im seeing now, but I also think I need to stop because I still try to talk to other girls. I dont date them or sleep with them

    but I worry that she is not perfect

    how self centered am I being?

    I like her, shes very pretty, good sex, we get along.

    of ocurse there are girls Im more into physically, and some I am more into mentally or spiritually.

    but

    who cares, we get along.

    How can I tell?

    I told her that maybe we should just be friends, then she said I never cared abotu her, was lying to her, playing games with her and using her.

    I told her I liked her and cared aobut her and thought she was super cool

    but then she wanted a reason why I didnt want to be with her

    I said I dont know.. I said I didnt want to hurt her feelings anymore than I already had.

    Shes the one I should be with right?

    Or should I just be with no one.

    I think I need to not even worry about this.

    I did like her and care for her tohugh. Why does she think I didnt?

    people hurt others that they care for, it doesnt mean they dont care for them right?

    I thought about her a lot.
    Here we go again bwoy....LOL
    News flash you are a "normal male" the way you feel is normal for a man. It is normal to wonder if you are settling too soon and if while you are settled in this relationship other hot women could be passing you by.
    These feelings are what I feel are the essence of a man. If you were not experiencing them I would be more worried about you. You will phuck up what is probably a good relationship. You will feel like an idiot, you will be with other women and realize you would rather be with this girl, you will go out drinking and drunk call her at 4:00 am while she is cuddled up with anotha nucca....deal with it!!! you can't help it you have a Y chromosome so you are genetically programmed to phuck up a good thing.....peace out!!

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    sebas4920
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    Quote Originally Posted by The JaM™ View Post
    You seemed doomed for a life of uncertainty and doubt. Good luck with that.
    in tarot my future was ruled by the hermit. so im to be a recluse, loner....

    although not just because people dont want me but because i push them away...

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    Quote Originally Posted by YardiePrincess View Post
    Here we go again bwoy....LOL
    News flash you are a "normal male" the way you feel is normal for a man. It is normal to wonder if you are settling too soon and if while you are settled in this relationship other hot women could be passing you by.
    These feelings are what I feel are the essence of a man. If you were not experiencing them I would be more worried about you. You will phuck up what is probably a good relationship. You will feel like an idiot, you will be with other women and realize you would rather be with this girl, you will go out drinking and drunk call her at 4:00 am while she is cuddled up with anotha nucca....deal with it!!! you can't help it you have a Y chromosome so you are genetically programmed to phuck up a good thing.....peace out!!
    pretty much what will probably happen

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    pretty much what will probably happen
    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebas4920 View Post
    pretty much what will probably happen
    I can guarantee it

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    Quote Originally Posted by the jam™ View Post
    you seemed doomed for a life of uncertainty and doubt. Good luck with that.
    amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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