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    Advice please...for a fella

    Okay so a wealth handsome friend of mine is in a bit of a quandry. He is reserved and guarded and wants people to like him for who he is and not what he possesses. He is single and is looking for a woman, but rarely ever approaches them.

    So a beautiful woman approached him and asked his number, they talk a bit and then go out on a date. They have a lovely time, she even asks at the end of the date if her friend can come over to meet him, he said yes, and then they all proceeded to another place to have drinks. At the end of the date they all parted company.

    Now he is interested in the woman and she wonīt return his calls....I advise him to start unliking her and look for another...what do you advise????

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    If he is rich he has resources.
    Get a background check done.
    Find the skeletons in her closet to exploit her.

    or

    He could just accept that she is not really interested and move along.

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    His money is always going to be an attraction for woman.

    But he needs to watch de oman that mek that move on him.
    she is rolling with her instincts dem ones is de most dangerous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by T.C Tiger View Post
    Okay so a wealth handsome friend of mine is in a bit of a quandry. He is reserved and guarded and wants people to like him for who he is and not what he possesses. He is single and is looking for a woman, but rarely ever approaches them.

    So a beautiful woman approached him and asked his number, they talk a bit and then go out on a date. They have a lovely time, she even asks at the end of the date if her friend can come over to meet him, he said yes, and then they all proceeded to another place to have drinks. At the end of the date they all parted company.

    Now he is interested in the woman and she wonīt return his calls....I advise him to start unliking her and look for another...what do you advise????
    Why did she walk with friend in the wings?
    Tell tale sign though. If the friend joins it's the mark that things aren't going well so rescue me. Your friend obviously lacks social graces and has spent his entire life living off the fact that he is rich and supposedly good looking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgeflash View Post
    Why did she walk with friend in the wings?
    Tell tale sign though. If the friend joins it's the mark that things aren't going well so rescue me. Your friend obviously lacks social graces and has spent his entire life living off the fact that he is rich and supposedly good looking.
    He felt she bring the friend to show off that she pick up a rich man, but he went along with it at first cos he didn wanna upset her by saying no, this is our date.

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    Its better if he just pays for love. At least he knows what hes getting into and they will stick to you like glue once the money stream is solid..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jason kiDD View Post
    Its better if he just pays for love. At least he knows what hes getting into and they will stick to you like glue once the money stream is solid..
    Well said my friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgeflash View Post
    If he is rich he has resources.
    Get a background check done.
    Find the skeletons in her closet to exploit her.

    or

    He could just accept that she is not really interested and move along.
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    TC if he can't get a woman interested in him alone without flashing dollars then he is better off using his assets.

    Honestly it's really not that hard to get a woman's attention without letting her know how deep your pockets are. It's keeping it that's the trick. So he needs to do the following:

    Strip all the signs of money from his appearance and go out and mingle being himself and vague about his profession.

    When he finds a woman he's attracted to make sure and ask her all about her and keep any questions about him short and ambiguous. Women enjoy a man that is into their likes and dislikes.

    Finally. although a bit childish, clumsily appear frugal so the woman realizes that he is money conscious but not cheap. She should not pick up on his true net worth and she will more than likely make a decision on whether to continue the conversation or move on to another man that IS her type financially. Either way he will find out her true interest in him.
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    Good responses. Conscious, maybe thatīs what he did and the woman didnīt think he would be a walk over and an easy meal ticket why she doesnīt take his calls anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by T.C Tiger View Post
    Good responses. Conscious, maybe thatīs what he did and the woman didnīt think he would be a walk over and an easy meal ticket why she doesnīt take his calls anymore.
    So this is what yall assumed or was able to established?

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    Quote Originally Posted by T.C Tiger View Post
    Good responses. Conscious, maybe thatīs what he did and the woman didnīt think he would be a walk over and an easy meal ticket why she doesnīt take his calls anymore.
    Then move on to the next one, sheesh.

    Women outnumber men by far on the face of the planet.

    But hey, I know dudes PROUD to flaunt their dollars to attract women and usually end up playing those gold diggers like fiddles.
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    Quote Originally Posted by swallow View Post
    So this is what yall assumed or was able to established?
    assumption
    Quote Originally Posted by Conscious View Post
    Then move on to the next one, sheesh.

    Women outnumber men by far on the face of the planet.

    But hey, I know dudes PROUD to flaunt their dollars to attract women and usually end up playing those gold diggers like fiddles.
    Yeah.Fuh real!

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    My logic is simple no one walks up to you and say I love you.

    It comes with time, and if you have de money you can afford to buy your love.
    Some of us just have to work harder @ getting love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by swallow View Post
    My logic is simple no one walks up to you and say I love you.

    It comes with time, and if you have de money you can afford to buy your love.
    Some of us just have to work harder @ getting love.
    Tru that!

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