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a matter of religion versus tradition
Most of my family follow Christianity. Even if you don't necessarily go to church, babies are baptisted. My cousin jus had two girls and he didn't have them baptized, so now my mom, his parents, etc. are going on about how its wrong not to baptize your kids. But is it really wrong, if my cousin doesn't go to church, I don't know if he even considers himself religious? Besides, they're his children.
When does tradition overstep religion? Should relgion be left up to the chid or shoud parents actively initiate their children into a religion? (In this case, getting the child baptised). There's no right or wrong answer of course, jus wanna hear your views. |
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My mother raised me up to understand her religion. When I got older, I accepted it for myself because I gained understanding, and accepted its teaching for myself... |
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Dido I wish the rest of my family was this open minded |
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For me, tradition itself is sacred and greatly helps in defining what and who you are. However, that adherence to tradition must be accompanied by a sound understanding of what that tradition is, where it came from and as such to simply bring up a child in a tradition without teaching in gradual detail the roots of the tradition, particularly religious traditions as Xianity or Islam which creates mindsets that discourage detailed investigation works out to more harm than good.
I have a baby son and I am adamant that there will be no religious indoctrination of any kind until he is at an age where he can understand or at least ask questions and understands the answers. And of course, I will be the one who will be explaining to him the origin and development of religious traditions and religious ideas, or will send him to those I know can do so without proselytising. After that I shall abide by whatever decision he decides to make. |
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just wondering where this baptism comes into play.
I have yet to c where it is supposed to practiced in the bible. I know John the baptist baptised by water but after Christ came we were supposed to be baptized by the spirit no longer by water. |
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I definately agree that blindly following religious tradition not enough. I kinda figured you wouldn't baptise your son or expose him to such things. |
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BTW isn't the tradition of all baptism based on religion? I see no seperation in this case! |
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The word tradition is not dependent on religion, anything can be a tradition but baptism is simpy a "religious" tradition or a "religous" practice. |
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tradition oversteps religion everywhere...
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I am siding with you on this my friend. I did not baptise my children(that will be their choice). What do you mean by follow the relion? |
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