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I know this has been posted before, but I had some additional questions....
Carnival season is upon us and I am in a bit of a dilema
Last year I wore micro braids. While it was easy to deal with while I was there, I must say never again. I hate how they feel on my head. I am a real b*tch when it comes time to take them out. I am just not a fan
This year, I am trying to think of some alternatives. My hair is relaxed. In Trinidad, of course it is one big puff ball. Has anyone with relaxed hair just done leave in conditioner in Trinidad. What brand did you use?
Also, I am seriously considering a weave. I have never worn a weave before, so can anyone recommend a GREAT sylist in NYC (OR Brooklyn). I want to see someone who will not damage my hair just for me to look good!