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Old 07-05-2005, 03:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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The Truth About Relaxers

STOP LIVING THE LYE!

This is a phrase that I read in a book when I was researching what I could do with my hair other than use chemicals to straighten it. So many women today suffer from all types of hair loss. Alopecia, aging, heredity, and stress are some of the most common causes. The cause that is found in almost epidemic proportions in black women, however, is chemical damage from relaxers -- or chemical hair straighteners.

The Process
Most of us have no idea what these relaxers really do to our hair... how they actually go about the process of straightening. There are two types of relaxers. They are SODIUM HYDROXIDE (lye-based) and GUANIDINE HYDROXIDE (no-lye). Although the no-lye products are thought to be less damaging, both types are harmful to the hair because in order to straighten it, they must first strip it of its natural moisture and then break down the structure of the hair.

Let me briefly explain. The hair has two bonds, a physical bond and a ch emical bond, referred to as the S and H bonds. T hese bonds create the S-shaped kink or curl in African-American hair. Chemically processing the hair changes the molecular structure by breaking down these bonds... thereby damaging the hair. Once the bonds are broken, the hair loses its natural shape and elasticity, and can then be manually formed into straight hair. The changed S-shape bond can never be returned to its original healthy form. It has undergone a permanent change caused by chemical damage.

Hair Damage
Sodium hydroxide and guanidine hydroxide both have a very high pH factor, meaning they are highly alkaline products. When applied to the hair, they immediately strip it of all moisture, because any retention of moisture would reduce the effectiveness of the straightener. This is why a deep-conditioning treatment is always applied to the hair after the chemical process. These treatments are designed to drive moisture back into the hair sh aft and to coat the hair strand to make it look shiny and appear health y, or in other words -- to camouflage the damage. But no hair that has undergone a chemical relaxer is healthy. It's been purposely and permanently damaged by the chemicals... and hair can't be damaged and healthy at the same time.

Relaxed hair is always dry. This is why we're constantly putting something on it.. oiling our hair and scalp two or three times a week. There are several reasons for this: 1) Start with the moisture-stripping process of the chemical relaxer that I spoke about in the above paragraph; 2) Add the steady regimen of hot-comb touch-ups, curling irons & flat irons (all work with heat which is drying to the hair) and hair sprays and styling/holding gels, (these contain alcohol which is drying to the hair). The natural oils our scalps produce can't serve our hair's needs. The scalp can't manufacturer enough natural moisture to replenish the moisture we're stripping from our hair on a daily basis; and 3) The products we usually use in an attempt to fight dryness (usually petroleum-based products, or "grease") don't really add moisture to the hair at all. They simply coat the hair with petroleum to provide shine. At the same time, they clog the pores of the scalp so that the scalp can't secrete its own natural moisture.

I always thought black hair either doesn't grow as fast as Caucasian hair - or doesn't grow at all. WRONG! All hair grows at the same rate - on average ? inch per month. But the reason that most black women have shorter hair is because of breakage. Why does the hair break? Because of the harsh treatment we give it. We strip it of its moisture in every way we possibly can! So after a period of time (short for some, a little longer for others) the need for a cut to camouflage the damage done to your hair will become evident. When your stylist suggests a "designer cut" (like the fade), that's your cue that your hair ha s had enough.

Skin Absorption
In addition to the damage done to the hair by these chemicals, we should remember that the process involves more than simply straightening or texturizing the hair above the scalp. Chemicals are absorbed through the skin into the tissue, cells, and blood stream. We rub creams and lotions on our skin -- knowing that the skin will absorb them and be moisturized by them. The medical industry administers drugs through skin absorption -- like the patches for smoking, sea-sickness, and birth control. The skin absorbs everything; and as strong as these chemicals are - causing sores and abrasions on the scalp - why wouldn't some of it be absorbed through the skull and possibly into the brain?

Causticity
The instructions on the relaxer boxes always say to wear gloves -- because the chemicals are caustic, however it is applied directly to the hair and scalp and left there for a period of time. Women experience burns and scabs from the toxic chemicals, and yet they continue to go back every few weeks for their regular dose of this creamy cr ack. The FDA banned the manufacture of household liquid drain cleaners that have a higher than 10 percent solution of Sodium Hydroxide because it corrodes drain pipes. Because it is so strong, it may cause dermatitis of the scalp. If left on the hair more than 10 minutes, it will dissolve the hair, causing it to tear easily and become fragile and limp. Would anyone put this cream on their face, or on their arm, and leave it there for 10 or 15 minutes? Then why put it on your head?

Inhalation
And then there are the fumes. A study done by the Cancer Surveillance program at the University California School of Medicine found the number of cases of blood cancer to be excessive for females in the occupations "cosmetologist, hairdressers, and manicurist." Dyes, shampoos, conditioners, relaxers, permanent wa ve solutions, nail antiseptics, fungi, and bacteria are the suspect causes of this. Although the study does not specifically look for race in the findings, it is known that bla cks in these beauty occupations typically have higher rates of blood cancer. Also, frequent inhalation of this chemical can lead to lung damage.

Love Yourself
In order to stop these damaging practices, we must first learn to love ourselves as we are. Why should we continue the practice of chemically damaging our hair so that we can wear it in styles created for other hair textures when African-American hair can be styled beautifully just as it is? It's not hard to work with, and there are lots of varieties of styles to choose from.. From locks to twists to coils to afros... from dressy up-dos to the no-care-hair of free-styling. Our hair is not unmanageable, as many people think. My aunt once told me that our hair is easy to manage as long as we stop trying to force it t o do things it wasn't designed to do.

Hair doesn't have to be straight to be beautiful. It simply has to be well-groomed. There are books by natural hair care specialists that take you through ever y step of transitioning from chemically-straightened hair to healthy natural stylish hair. There are also support groups all over the country to help people cross over and maintain their natural hair. If you're interested in attending some of these gatherings in your area, visit
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:24 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I am in my 5th relaxerless month. I decided to just STOP the maddness. My hair just couldn't take it anymore. I have ezcema and I want to believe the relaxerless hair will help and forget about dry scalp. I can go a whole week without moisturizing my scalp and it is not dry at all. I used to use all types of oils to keep my hair from being dry and nothing worked. FINALLY I am experiencing relief.
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:28 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Thank you for posting that info but I don't think I will ever stop relaxing my hair. I admire those women that are natural but I just don't think it's for me.
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:31 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Mrs_Scorpion
I am in my 5th relaxerless month. I decided to just STOP the maddness. My hair just couldn't take it anymore. I have ezcema and I want to believe the relaxerless hair will help and forget about dry scalp. I can go a whole week without moisturizing my scalp and it is not dry at all. I used to use all types of oils to keep my hair from being dry and nothing worked. FINALLY I am experiencing relief.
and how yuh wearin yuh hair?
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Originally Posted by XtasyReds
Thank you for posting that info but I don't think I will ever stop relaxing my hair. I admire those women that are natural but I just don't think it's for me.
I used to feel that way and God only knows if I will really maintain it but I will try. Some people have no problem with relaxers but I do so this seems to be the only alternative for me.
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:33 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Mrs_Scorpion
I am in my 5th relaxerless month. I decided to just STOP the maddness. My hair just couldn't take it anymore. I have ezcema and I want to believe the relaxerless hair will help and forget about dry scalp. I can go a whole week without moisturizing my scalp and it is not dry at all. I used to use all types of oils to keep my hair from being dry and nothing worked. FINALLY I am experiencing relief.

Thanks for this. I'm cause I wore my hair natural for 3 years and decided to relax earlier this year and it is so dry now! I relaxed it for manageability because it's very long and thick, but I hate blow drying and hot combs/curling irons, so it's always in a ponytail anyway. I don't think I'll be relaxing it again for a very long time. I have noticed that it's not as nourished as it was before when i just got it washed and let it dry naturally with just some oil and frizz-ease.
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:34 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by sharkbait
and how yuh wearin yuh hair?
i am not a big fan of braids (extensions) but that's what i have been doing for the past 5 months. iwill continue until all the relaxer grows out. i have kinky braid twists right now.
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Old 07-05-2005, 03:34 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Interesting! I wish I can try the natural thing again....I did it for a year and then it was becoming too much to handle, so I went back to the relaxer.
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Originally Posted by Mrs_Scorpion
your welcome empress

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congrats on your decision to go natural! i've been natural for 3+ years now and after swearing i couldn't do it because of my thick hair, i buckled down and did it. braids, weaves, ponytails & patience were my friends :). now with all this lovely talk about Curly Pudding, i might be able to finally let my curly fro loose!
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Can't bother to read that long post...but I'm guessing the gist is "Relaxers are bad."
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Old 07-05-2005, 05:45 PM   #14 (permalink)
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thanks for the info, but I will continue to relax my hair (it's too thick and too much too anything else with it...but I will probably go that route when I'm older.

Plus, I only touch up my roots every 3mths and I deep condition my hair every wk (either protein or a moisturizing one),so I don't suffer breakage and I'm not suscepting my hair to to so much "damage".
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Originally Posted by socadiva05
thanks for the info, but I will continue to relax my hair (it's too thick and too much too anything else with it...but I will probably go that route when I'm older.

Plus, I only touch up my roots every 3mths and I deep condition my hair every wk (either protein or a moisturizing one),so I don't suffer breakage and I'm not suscepting my hair to to so much "damage".

u took the words out my mouth

i perm my hair and it isnt damaged
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