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Old 12-10-2003, 01:11 AM   #1 (permalink)
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How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

How do you give someone a fashion tip or criticism without hurting their feelings...
I know to each his own and all dat good stuff and everyone has their own tastes and all dat... But a Jerry Curl is the situation i am dealing with... I know a girl who body is bangin, face real pleasing to look at, dresses on point and all dat but she have a Jerry Curl in she head...
what do yall suggest, should i just let what in my opinion are fashion fopas be or should i offer constructive criticism
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Re: How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

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How do you give someone a fashion tip or criticism without hurting their feelings...
I know to each his own and all dat good stuff and everyone has their own tastes and all dat... But a Jerry Curl is the situation i am dealing with... I know a girl who body is bangin, face real pleasing to look at, dresses on point and all dat but she have a Jerry Curl in she head...
what do yall suggest, should i just let what in my opinion are fashion fopas be or should i offer constructive criticism
I think that you should SUGGEST to her different types of styles.. say it like this : "you know, you a good looking person, and i saw a a hair style that'll fit you real well, you should try it out"..... LOL, you know flatter her
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Old 12-10-2003, 09:05 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

Originally posted by HornaMan4Hire
How do you give someone a fashion tip or criticism without hurting their feelings...
I know to each his own and all dat good stuff and everyone has their own tastes and all dat... But a Jerry Curl is the situation i am dealing with... I know a girl who body is bangin, face real pleasing to look at, dresses on point and all dat but she have a Jerry Curl in she head...
what do yall suggest, should i just let what in my opinion are fashion fopas be or should i offer constructive criticism
if she's ur girlfriend, then u have to be up front with her and tell her those days r over. but if she is just a friend or someone u r trying to kick it to, just leave dat alone. or like tw said you can make little suggestions.
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I would go with TW and make a suggestion..I feel you should never just offer criticism without giving a suggestion as well...

Look at magazines/sites and show/send her a picture and state - "hey..I just across this pic and saw this hairstyle..Ah think it would really good on yuh..yuh should try it sometime"
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Re: How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

Originally posted by HornaMan4Hire
How do you give someone a fashion tip or criticism without hurting their feelings...
I know to each his own and all dat good stuff and everyone has their own tastes and all dat... But a Jerry Curl is the situation i am dealing with... I know a girl who body is bangin, face real pleasing to look at, dresses on point and all dat but she have a Jerry Curl in she head...
what do yall suggest, should i just let what in my opinion are fashion fopas be or should i offer constructive criticism
Don't criticise without suggestions
so one way to go about it is to suggest something that would like nice on her, instead of just coming right out and saying it. If your opinion matters to her she will catch the hint!
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Old 12-10-2003, 01:53 PM   #6 (permalink)
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anybody that is still rocking jheri curls need a straight forward approach. TAKE DAT CRAP OUTTA YUH HEAD, DE 80'S ARE GONE!!!
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Re: Re: How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

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if she's ur girlfriend, then u have to be up front with her and tell her those days r over. but if she is just a friend or someone u r trying to kick it to, just leave dat alone. or like tw said you can make little suggestions.
Nah she aint a girlfriend, just my homey...
Me and my friend were trying to hint about her hair one day.. we was like "THANK GOD MY MOMS DIDNT LET ME GET A JERI CURL BACK IN THE DAY"
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Re: Re: Re: How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

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Nah she aint a girlfriend, just my homey...
Me and my friend were trying to hint about her hair one day.. we was like "THANK GOD MY MOMS DIDNT LET ME GET A JERI CURL BACK IN THE DAY"

BWWAAHHHH..dat was hilarious..but give her suggestions and it does not wuk..tell her that u can't see her for a while. casue all de lard oil in she head got u arteries clog..yeah another bad joke..so what
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Originally posted by trinisunshine
I would go with TW and make a suggestion..I feel you should never just offer criticism without giving a suggestion as well...

Look at magazines/sites and show/send her a picture and state - "hey..I just across this pic and saw this hairstyle..Ah think it would really good on yuh..yuh should try it sometime"
Ah like Trinisunshine approach best....if you're a good friend you have to tell her.
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Re: How Can You Give Fashion Tips or Criticism Without Hurting Feelings

Originally posted by HornaMan4Hire
How do you give someone a fashion tip or criticism without hurting their feelings...
I know to each his own and all dat good stuff and everyone has their own tastes and all dat... But a Jerry Curl is the situation i am dealing with... I know a girl who body is bangin, face real pleasing to look at, dresses on point and all dat but she have a Jerry Curl in she head...
what do yall suggest, should i just let what in my opinion are fashion fopas be or should i offer constructive criticism
oh wow....well as long as it's not a over-juicy jerry..subtle hints are the way to go.."Girl..you would look real cute in a pony-tail"
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