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11-03-2003, 09:44 AM
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"men have it harder than women when it comes to finding somebody"
or so Amir says....what do you think?
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11-03-2003, 02:40 PM
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Men have it harder cause women are always searching for the one while men are just lookin to do their thing so men won't be as receptive to the one even if she is right under his nose.. then they let her get away and regret it in the future when they realize what they had
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11-03-2003, 04:48 PM
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11-03-2003, 05:02 PM
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Men do! Women do! No men do! No, women dooo!
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I doh know who have it harder cuz I never stepped in ah woman's shoe...what I do know is dat is we men the vast majority ah de time who duz have tuh put we self out dey tuh make de fuss move, setting we self up fuh rejection. Women have the 'luxury' of having men come on to them, then they can pick and chose who dey want to deal with.
Now when I say luxury, I don't mean that it really is, becuase getting too much unwanted attention, or attention from the wrong kinds of people can be quite burdensome. And the fact that societal/traditional/patriarchal norms dictate that women must not be the aggressors can at times leave them at a disadvantage...after all fellas it's "okay" for us to pursue someone we're interested in, whereas if a woman does that, she runs the risk of being labled in a less than complimentary manner. The whole dating thing can be overly complicated at times...I guess it helps if we all approach it with an understanding of the perspective of the other side. |
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Re: "men have it harder than women when it comes to finding somebody"
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11-04-2003, 02:30 PM
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Stop looking, the right person will show up in the right time.
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11-04-2003, 02:36 PM
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ok I'm not done yet..HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.... Aren't you the one who referred me to www.match.com, and I kid you not I've successfully got myself a MATCH!! hahahahaha.. yuh too wicked! Hornaman I agree with you yet again, I don't think I've disagreed with you man! ALSO: Did allyuh read the book, I see all these repsonses to the title of the post, but no reflection on the book, lol.. Ya'll too much oui'! Last edited by Empressdududahlin; 11-04-2003 at 02:43 PM.. |
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11-04-2003, 03:17 PM
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Well i think it's like this, Man want to do all sorts of ################ing when they young and ting and do all sorts of crazy stuff with different different different gal.
then they have the cheek to say there is no good woman out there and that it's hard to find one. How is it they want good women and they are not good men. I know all men are not like that as all women are not like that. But the circle these men and women made for themselves is where they should stay. i wouldn't want an exwhore 4 a husband and i'm sure he wouldn't want a exwhore 4 a wife :flower :flower |
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11-04-2003, 04:10 PM
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11-04-2003, 08:13 PM
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Nutting like a good ole ex-ho for a wife I say. I sure to marry and previous ole ting sometime soon. Let dem get it out they system.
The only ting is yuh have to screen properly to make sure it out dey system(as well as any other tings they may have picked up along de way!) |
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11-05-2003, 10:30 AM
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I think they both have it hard.......Women are always searching for that one perfect guy, while some guys are just looking to get off:p .............So they dont care who they get........
But it all depends on what you are looking for in life; if it is a serious relationship or just a fling. |
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