Dats right

good answer.

he didn't do anything wrong???? how so????

he took something of HERS that did NOT belong to HIM.

how is that right? because it's a panty it should not be considered theft?

This man is SICK. Defenitely go to the police. He won’t be charged anything for writing the letter, but he stole something from you.

By going to the cops u never know, u may be helping someone else from being molested or raped.

Exactly how much jail time you think he'll get for a stolen underwear? Legally the man aint do nothing that will land him in any hot water unless: she reports it and subsequently needs a restraining order because he wont leave them alone.

100% try not to use him as an example of men. He is an individual not the entire or majority of our gender

CUT OFF HIS WILLY AND TELL HIM YOU WANTED TO SHOW IT TO A FRIEND!!!! THAT SOMMAMA####################!!!

are u saying that it is legal to steal people's underwear?

it doesn't matter whether he spends an hour in jail, the night in jail or a week in jail...he stole. i never said he would end up serving 3 to 5 years for stealing panties. but i can't see why he wouldn't be arrested if she decided to press charges.

if i were to go and teif panties from Macy's, u'll see how quick i would get dem bracelets. just b/c it's underwear doesn't preclude one from being arrested. what would they say, oh since it's panties u are free to go???

theft is theft, whether it's petty theft or all the way up to grand larceny.

Stop being emotional for a moment and consider this: judges will not want a case regarding a stolen underwear from someones home tried in their courtroom unless the item is of considerable value. If anything he gets fined and have a nice day all. Stealing from a commercial retail chain carries a different kind of weight in the legal system. prosecutors and judges alike will try to make an example of you so as to deter others from trying to steal any merchandise from a retailer. Add to that generally when u are caught stealing from a retailer its because you have the merchandise in your possession. What if homeboy say yeah i took it initially but i put it back and forgot about the note? How do you prosecute him for this misdemeanor infraction?

Calm yuh heart sweetheart... nobody saying dis fella was in de right, most would agree that he's a sicko. Like it or not though...other than petty theft he hasn't broken any laws...sad truth.

jail for a little 5-dollar panty taken from a house he was invited into?

if we thought prisons were overcrowded now.....

i can see why people don't like to say shit on islandmix.

where in that post was i getting emotional? because i don't agree with u that means i'm getting emotional?

where in that post am i portraying joy, hate, happiness, sadness, fear etc? i talk my mind. just like u. don't equate that with being emotional.

in the note he admits he stole her panties. that is prima facia evidence he took it without her permission. that is petty theft.

even if the cops won't arrest him for something like that, he could be fined. just like what u said. so how is stealing underwear legal? what is the purpose of the fine?

LOL!!

so what if someone stole something personal from u? how would u like to see the situation handled?

What else could I want/expect but to get the item returned? To get him fined for petty theft would in all likelihood be more expensive (in court-time and personal time particularly) than it's worth. Especially for 1 panty?

Like ppl said, make the police report and file the restraining order, so that if anything happens again, then he's facing serious trouble.

Sometimes ya gotta just handle what's necessary, pack ur lessons in your bag, and keep it moving.

oh ok. the point i'm making is that it's not legal to go and steal anything from anybody's home. whether it is a panty or plasma tv. so i don't get the "legally he didn't do anything wrong"

gotta go now... my man is home. about to take part in Valentine night activities.

You sure you not being emotional? Because if you aren't you surely aren't responding rationaly. Read what I have said thus far and tell me where do I make the claim that what he has done is legal? You are so caught up in the idea that this man needs to be punished that you are neglecting key things being said.

1. It isn't cost effective to pursue this matter beyond the filing of a police report.

2. No judge in America wants to have a case tried before their court for an underwear unless it's diamond encrusted and has considerable value. Even then they might still want it resolved without trial.

3. The Comparison of stealing an underwear in someones home in which you were an invited guest to stealing from a department chain does not work. In the personal matter other than the note unless the person walks with the underwear in their pocket how can it be proven that he never returned it or left it on the premises? In the situation of a department store one would be caught with the item in their possesion concealed. The court would take the stance of possible punishment so as to deter any further theft from retailers who play a major role in holding up the economy. It's economics and politics intertwined far different from this situation.

Lastly unless you are a lawyer save dem terminologies because it cah help yuh save face when yuh making a bigger deal out of something than it's worth.