As a guy myself this dude has nothing good in store for you. He sees you as younger naive female he can control and if you fall into his trap he gonna just use you for sex. I understand you say ya'll was just friends afta the sex stopped but in his mind that shit was on pause cause you werent ################ing anyone else. Now you have something good going he gonna try to lay the guilt trip on you, leave him alone and his fake ass friendship vibes. TRUST ME; if you dont you might end up breeding for that piece of shit, I see that shit happen time and time again, so hear what I telling you and left that guy alone. He sex you while he with he so called woman and believ me you werent the only one. So you unless you want to be crying at night while whining up in some other gyrl crotch at night, change your number and avoid him til he get the point to move on.