he told me to tell her that women like her don't get good men because of their stink attitudes (yeah...that's another bone of contention...she's almost 40...no man..no prospects and she's DESPERATE)

that may be so...but the way it works is that she's my subordinate...so the person who would get in trouble would be her for disrespecting me

i took a walk...did some shopping...lol...i'm cool now...the nest time she does her bullshit i will deal with her